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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:44 am


I like strawberry pop-tarts.

Actually, we treated you just fine until you started acting like an a**. If EVERYONE treats you poorly it's probably a problem with you. Not everyone's an a*****e, but if you act like a complete knob people will treat you like one.

I am not kidding. Bass has aspergers, my boyfriend has ADD and Tourette's, but they manage to behave maturely and are treated nicely in return. You are treated how you are perceived by others. It's a fact.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:44 am


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I do have psychotic episodes, but if anybody says that I don't, oh well, they don't believe...
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Trish the Stalker

PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:46 am


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I do have psychotic episodes, but if anybody says that I don't, oh well, they don't believe...
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I never said you didn't. I just said you don't bother doing anything about it. You just say "I have psychotic episodes" and don't try to learn how to handle them or minimise them happening to you. Because there are likely triggers and you can easily learn how to avoid triggering them. Acting like a douche and having people tell you to sod off because of it is probably part of the problem.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:47 am


Your Lord and Master has arrived
Then I guess they didn't learn from you...cuz right now...you're making me pretty pissed, I have refrained from going farther then those curse words...and I will try to keep it that way, and most of the time I treat people with respect...but some people treat me badly just because they "had a bad day"...
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Trish the Stalker

PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:47 am


I'm treating you badly because you are making this a bad day.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:49 am


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I've got Aspergers, I'm 20, and I've been having to deal with the way people treat me all my life. You've got to realise that no one else will change the way they act just for you.

The more maturely you act, the more maturely you'll be treated. It's a general statement, but it works. There are still some that will act like a p***k to you, but you've just got to ignore those people.

But here's a thing that took me quite a while to learn: The more you hide behind the whole "I have issues!1!!111!1!" crap, the less progress you'll ever make. I have issues, but I don't flaunt them. I get on with it because if I don't, I'm stuck. I'll never grow, and I'll never be who I can be.

Aspergers can be used to justify a misunderstanding, or taking something really literally when it's not meant to be. It's not an excuse for acting like an a**. There's a huge difference.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:50 am


Your Lord and Master has arrived
That's not the problem, I am trying to learn how to control my psychotic eps, but people anywhere I go, are trying to make me feel like I'm inferior to them...which tends to tick me off a lot, and I tend to get people called on me because of it, even though they started it, that's why I haven't gone to some of my fav site in a while...and I'm also trying to calm down, that way I do not go further with the argument...
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I don't act like an a** unless someone has started something with me...then it usually gets into an argument even after I have pressed the ignore button...
PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:52 am


"They started it" is never an excuse unless you're 5 years old. Learn to walk away instead of continuing. It's a basic way to handle most stuff.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:54 am


Your Lord and Master has arrived
I know it is only for five year olds, and I have walked away before, they just followed me...and I know that's not an excuse either...and anytime I call someone, they say I started it and I'm always the one to get in trouble...and please refrain from saying any other negative things about what I do please...
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:57 am


People can no longer cover their eyes.


Dude, for the most part, people are going to try to make you feel inferior to them over anything, whether it be medical reasons, race, anything really. It's just what people like to do. Just ignore them. Unless your me. The reason people try to make me feel inferior is because of the way I dress and look. I like to have fun with it, like walking around walmart in a trenchcoat. You get some weird looks for that!

Basically, you just gotta learn to roll with the punches and not get so angry over everything.


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Trish the Stalker

PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:58 am


I'm really mostly speaking of the way you behaved on these boards. It was immature and annoying, and quite frankly I have no patience for it.

If you have aspergers or psychotic episodes only mention it when it is relevant - like there is a serious misunderstanding. Unless there is it just seems like you're trying to use it as an excuse for poor behaviour. The way I'm treating you right now is because you're acting like a brat, not because you have aspergers or psychotic episodes.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:00 am


Your Lord and Master has arrived
Look, I'm trying not to do anything harsh that will likely get me banned from this guild and the Gaia site itself, so please stop saying that I'm using my medical problems as an excuse...I'm not, I'm just trying to give you guys a heads up, so I don't hurt your feelings...and I usually do roll with the punches unless they insult my mother or father...and I hate it when people insult the dead...my father I mean...and I'm not trying to use this as an excuse...
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Please don't call me a brat, an a**, a jerk, or anything that is negative, because it just makes the problem worse and I become a person who will never be negotiable, and then eventually wind up being a p***k...and I don't like being a p***k...I like people who understand how I feel, how I think, why I think that why...and just learn to live with it...I've learned to live with my disease for 9 years, I got the cops called on me 3 times (And I have charges pending on me because I have bitten a cop because he wouldn't listen to my mother when she said I was a special needs child), I went into hospitalization 7 or 8 times (Which I really hated), also I might be going to YDC if I don't shape up, and I'm trying to...

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:01 am


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I'm off now guys, is wurk tiem for me.

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Might be able to get on whilst I'm at work, but I'm not sure. The office has been moved around. xd


TTFN~

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:03 am


People can no longer cover their eyes.


Later Bass.


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Trish the Stalker

PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:04 am


Like I said, telling someone about is only necessary if it actually becomes a problem. If it is not a problem then there is no need to bring it up.

And this will sound like me being an a**, but you said you thought death was funny and you can't stand people insulting your dead father? That is hypocritical and stupid. Ala's cat is sick and you point out that it's funny but you expect other people to treat you with respect? That is a HUGELY a*****e thing to do.

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