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Posted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 1:40 pm
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[[[sorry, sweatdrop long post...]]]
okay, ive written about jadi-chan in ali before. she was the 'copy-cat' friend i have recieved a few notes about. if you dont know, she is my bffeaetddwp [best friend for ever and ever till death do we part. dont ask...]. anyway. this time, i think im the one who needs help, not her?
let me explain a couple of things first: 1:in minnesota, if your over 12 years old, you can choose 1 out of 2/3 choices: choice1: live with a foster parent in a foster home. choice2 [[married couple as parents]]:live with parents. choice3: choose who you want to live with : mom or dad.
2: jadi-chan has an overbearing step-dad, and a 'party-lets-get-drunk' family that she currently lives with. they treat her humanly, but thats about it.
currently, jadi-chan is living with her mother only 2 houses away from me. she is my other half. she knows more about me then i do, and vica-versa. we dont do anything without the other knowing within 12 hours of the other knowing. nothing.
now she wants to move in with her father. almost 2 1/2 hours away. i dont like this for a few reasons:
1:she is my other half. shes the only one in school who actually started to talk to me. she was my first real friend i made scince i was in diapers.
2: no offence jadi-chan if your reading this, but your dads not the best man in the world... hes always in and out of jail, he's an alcholic trieng to recover, but cant, he doesnt have a set home, and some really bad memories of hers come from times when he was with them.
i dont want to her go, but i do, too. i do because shell be happy, even just for a little while. but how can i live with out me? who can i talk to that will do what she does for me? only bitty-chan actually understands whats going on when i talk to her about the rough stuff, but jadi-chan understands every little thing. everything. from boys to sui'y. she knows. and now she's moving...
what do i do? i want to to be happy. i want her out of the jurisdiction of that step-dad. but i know whats happend in the past with him. and i want my friend.
has this happened to anyone else? gonk gonk crying crying what do i do??? crying crying gonk gonk
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Posted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 7:55 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 4:03 am
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 5:43 am
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 5:47 am
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 7:15 am
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 1:45 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 2:00 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 2:50 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 5:19 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 8:24 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 10:52 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 1:38 pm
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shani26 How do you know she doesn't care? Did you really try to talk to her, when you two are alone together? eek i dont want to make her think she has to stay. she loves us [[as in me, bitty-chan, samy-chan, lexie-chan, ect.]] all dearly, but she wants to live with her daddy. and she wont hear a word against him. if you try to convince her that he isnt a perfectly good man, she stops listening. i know he means the world to her, and he tries his absolute best, but i dont think thats a good thing for her. i even told my mom, and she said that her dad should probably not get custody....now im stuck....
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Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 3:18 pm
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dvn -camilla price- shani26 How do you know she doesn't care? Did you really try to talk to her, when you two are alone together? eek i dont want to make her think she has to stay. she loves us [[as in me, bitty-chan, samy-chan, lexie-chan, ect.]] all dearly, but she wants to live with her daddy. and she wont hear a word against him. if you try to convince her that he isnt a perfectly good man, she stops listening. i know he means the world to her, and he tries his absolute best, but i dont think thats a good thing for her. i even told my mom, and she said that her dad should probably not get custody....now im stuck....
here's the thing... a court would have to award him legal custody. it cant just be given to him. and if he's got a record (having been in and out of jail) and is an alcoholic, then I dont see that happening... regardless of what she wants. it would take lawyers (which means $$$) and the ability for him to convince a judge he's fit to be her guardian.
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Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 10:39 pm
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