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Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 7:52 pm
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Okay it started out like this.....
My Name is Ally, I met this guy, he's totally cute and i wanna go out with him, but i'm super shy, What should i do?
Then more Drama was added to the mix..... so it looked like this....
I'm totally inlove with this guy, at first i thought it was a crush, but i do love him.... but at the same time i'm trying to hook him up with one of my friends, i know i'm stupid, but seriously, we would never work out, How do i get over him?
Well the first hook-up didn't work, but then a few months later he met this second girl, my best friend, he asked me to find out if she was interested, she was.... They ended up together and i ended up Heart-Broken.
FAST FORWARD 5 MONTHS!!! My friend and the guy i was still n love with were having problems, leaving me playing Mail Man, some how in all this unessisary Drama, i find out he knew i loved him all along, and for a while he's secretly loved me back, heres where the problem comes in, He broke up with my best friend ((not for me, they were having problems before that... like her taking off her shirt in public, just to show she could have any man she wants)) and she immedialtly assumed that it was my fault because she knew i was hopelessly inlove with him, she stopped talking to me and broke up with him.
its been 4 months, she's showing no signs of talking to me or him, for about a week we've been friends with benifits, i have a feeling he's gonna ask me out.... ... time for the killer question
What do i say?
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Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 8:16 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 8:58 pm
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 4:16 am
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 7:27 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2008 6:10 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2008 12:36 pm
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Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 9:27 pm
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first off, its not ur fault that he broke up with ur friend. second, if she blames u, i wouldnt rly consider her a friend, considering: 1. she knew u liked him all along and didnt care and still went out with him not rly caring whether u liked it or not 2. u were nice the whole time even playing messenger 4 them, so if she has any1 to blame its herself, and honestly if she blames u, she doesnt rly sound worth it as a friend
now about ur question, what should u say, i cant tell u exactly what 2 say, mainly, just be urself. if he asks u out, then say yes, but dont sound over eager.... the main thing tho, BE URSELF
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Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 3:55 pm
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I think you should say yes if you really like the guy... and 'friends with benefits' NO thats bad! Anyway, if your friend blames you, then she is just irresponsible. You should never blame others irrationally. She sounds kind of slutty. Sorry if that offends you, but she took her shirt of in public. You should try to talk with her, and if she just ignores you and continues to be a b*tch, then shes not worth it. You sound like a really nice person, so if she is willing to let someone like that go, then it is her lose. If you are to nice then people will only take advantage of you! If she wants to act like a child then apparently she has not grown up, and needs to be treated like a child.
So, for the guy. Say yes if you love him, and no if you don't For the girl. Try to smooth it out, but be mature about it.
Good luck!
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Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 9:25 pm
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Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 5:02 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 6:23 am
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You tell him you would love too, if you lose friends over a guy, (especially like that) then I don't think you've had that strong of a connection.
My friend got a boyfriend who was really not nice to me and I told her, "He's a jerk you could do better" and she hid it from her parents and she would ask me what I thought of him and I would say that. Then she had a fight with her parents and she was just ranting and I was agreeing with everything she said. "You might just be happier if your mom left your dad...." Blah blah blah, "Your dad was always a little weird" <<< she said it before I agreed to it. Turns out she's been holding everything I said against me because I was trying to make her feel better. And another friend and I where joking around about having met some boys on MSN, you could tell from the story that was not real, we are really bad liars, anyway, my friend asked her if she was jealous of me because I had a phone number on my arm. And she said. "Why should I be jealous of her? She hasn't had a boyfriend all year and she can't attract anyone to her."
^^ Almost exact words.
The point? Even thought I thought we were best friend it seems that guys were more important to her then I was, she was willing to give my friendship up so she could have a guilt free realtionship with a guy 5 years older who's going to join the military and just got kicked out of his house who is now living with his boss. He also has no money to get anywhere...
She chose a loser boyfriend over a friend who would have been there for her. That's what your friend did, she chose bros over hoes. -lol-
Sorry for the ranting, I just thought I would share. biggrin Then when she starts complaining about it, ignore her.
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Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 10:19 am
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Posted: Fri Jul 18, 2008 10:52 pm
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Posted: Fri Jul 18, 2008 10:57 pm
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