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Posted: Tue Dec 29, 2009 6:02 pm
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I know I sound like a whiney teenager complaining about my sister and all, but just hear me out, please? And no, I'm not one to cuss often, so when I do here, it's trying to express how pissed I am.
Okay, so my sister gets on my nerves. A lot. And when she doesn't stop... I tend to get physical. I try to hold myself back, but she keeps poking, and going, and antagonizing me. And then there are the people at school, the one's who're just pricks and jerks, etc etc. We all know them. The one's who arn't bully's, but they sure as hell are not nice. And with my parents just being friggen' idiots so often recently, they think I am doing everything people are accusing me of when normally I'm not.
That's just extra explenation.
Now, when all of this gets too much, I hit people. I've squeezed my sister's arms untill she got bruises. I've bitten people. I scream and holler. What can I do when this is happening to stop myself? I've been getting better at controlling myself, but... Today was just too much for me, I'm grounded yet again because of some stupid thing, so I can't get out of the house and cool down. Help?
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Posted: Wed Dec 30, 2009 11:27 pm
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Posted: Sat Jan 02, 2010 11:59 am
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Posted: Sat Jan 02, 2010 12:05 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 03, 2010 10:46 am
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There's the thing, though. I can't talk to my school councelor -I'm scared of him, but that's another story for another time- and I've already talked to my parents about this. I've told them that I try to keep myself in check but they just won't listen. All they have to say is "Work harder, I know your sister's a pest, but you have to work at this too." I've been struggling with this for years, and I've made a few threads about it in the past, but that is the only thing people seem to tell me is to talk about it. Talking doesn't help me! I've tried taking up active sports like Karate and such in the past as well, but I'd seen myself using those moves on people around me and forced myself to quit. I'm asking if there is anyway I can calm myself down when I'm getting into a fit so I won't hurt people. I've tried the whole "Count to 10" thing, and ten seconds just isn't enough to let me get away from a situation. In fact, when they see me close my eyes and start to count they tend to make it worse for themselves. I just need something to calm myself down, not a way to avoid these situations completely, because they are unavoidable.
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Posted: Sun Jan 03, 2010 12:00 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 03, 2010 1:26 pm
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Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2010 7:50 pm
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 2:45 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 12:25 pm
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Posted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 12:24 am
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Posted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 12:26 am
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