Sindenky's issue[help?]

[Sindenky]

so i have a small issue.
last night i hooked up with this girl and things got physical.
This is not uncommon for me i have done the same thing many times before.
Issue is, she wants to have sex with me.
BAD!
that is also not uncommon.
I'm good at what i do xD.
Issue is I'm a virgin, and i think i may want to keep it that way.
but then again i may not.

i really just need to talk about it >.>  

[theholyest]

Sindenky

so i have a small issue.
last night i hooked up with this girl and things got physical.
This is not uncommon for me i have done the same thing many times before.
Issue is, she wants to have sex with me.
BAD!
that is also not uncommon.
I'm good at what i do xD.
Issue is I'm a virgin, and i think i may want to keep it that way.
but then again i may not.

i really just need to talk about it >.>

.....the Man inside me says do it. But the voices tell me you should take it slow.  

[The Wild Hunt]

Do it!
Unscrew her cork!
Plow her beanfield!
Feast on her menstral system!  

[Sindenky]

well its not an issue of speed.

i just have always valued who i lost my virginity to. i have meet several girls it could happen with but it never has, some out of personal choice.

well i havent told her im a virgin and i assume she thinks im not one because of the way i act.

but she wants to get together again this weekend and im not sure what to do. She will probably be disappointed if we dont have sex and i hate to disappoint but...  

[theholyest]

Do you want to lose it to her? Thats the question.  

[Sindenky]

TheWingsOfTheGods

Do you want to lose it to her? Thats the question.

im not really sure. I trully have no feelings for her >.>
but she bugged me enough to hang out with her and one thing lead to another.

only reason we didnt last night was because i had to get her home.


is it something i should be saving like this? i have had so many chances im starting to think im just afraid to give it up >.>  

[theholyest]

If it were me, i'd wait til its someone i had feelings for. At least thats what i did. Then she moved back to france....

Anyway, thats moving off subject.
Whether you save it for someone you like is up to you. Some people believe in saving it for the one they really like. Others believe that if they lose it on an earlier girl, then they can get more practice for the ones they really like.
Its up to you whether or not you keep it It just depends on whether you think its worth it.  

[Sindenky]

there are just so many pros and cons involved *sigh*

this should not be this complicated xD  

[theholyest]

Sindenky

there are just so many pros and cons involved *sigh*

this should not be this complicated xD

IF you really believe you dont want to lose it to her and if your saving it for the one you thing you''ll really care for, then dont do it. Simple as that.  

[Sindenky]

ok i understand that.

but how do i get her to understand that?  

[theholyest]

Sindenky

ok i understand that.

but how do i get her to understand that?

Tell her that your waiting for something more than pure physical lust. And that your waiting till so that when you find the person you want to give yourself too, that your really giving them your mind, body and soul, both metophorically, and literally.

At least thats what i'd say. Everyone acts differently.  

[Sindenky]

but the jerk in me is afraid that if i do that i wont get anything anymore >.>  

[theholyest]

Sindenky

but the jerk in me is afraid that if i do that i wont get anything anymore >.>

What if you get to the point just before you do it (Taking pics if you can, incase it goes wrong) and then tell her that, but that you're still willing to do what you can to please her without plowing her like theres no tommorow.  

[Cute Things In Jars]

The Fall is Inevitable

Do it!
Unscrew her cork!
Plow her beanfield!
Feast on her menstral system!

that was a very disturbing analogy, shane...

dude.... the thing is, you both have to want it, and i mean 100% no doubt that you're ready... till then, I say take it slow... the time will come  

[Sindenky]

TheWingsOfTheGods

Sindenky

but the jerk in me is afraid that if i do that i wont get anything anymore >.>

What if you get to the point just before you do it (Taking pics if you can, incase it goes wrong) and then tell her that, but that you're still willing to do what you can to please her without plowing her like theres no tommorow.

i already have pictures biggrin
but i should get more *nod nod*

then i can finally be a contributor instead of a lurker!!!