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Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 3:22 pm
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Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 8:43 pm
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Posted: Sun Nov 05, 2006 6:46 am
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 5:35 pm
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 6:04 pm
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 6:08 pm
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Posted: Fri Nov 10, 2006 6:07 am
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Tarrien ...When you think about it... do you have any doubts? Don't go through with it if you have doubts... that's never good
considering the doubts, as tarrien here just mentioned, it's clear that you DO have doubts. Otherwise you wouldn't be asking. As for the actual marriage, I'd wait longer. 2 or 3 more years, or until you finish your schooling, like black sugar said. Sometimes it's pointless, but here's an example: my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. though jokingly, he's mentiones marriage, and we've talked about it. perhaps you should do that before actually getting married. second, and more to the point that the previous example, it was at the 6 months that we began our fights. Of course, they aren't common, or anything. we get along great. but my point is it was after the 6 months that the quarrel arouse. The longer the time, the "harder" it becomes to stay together. That's where love comes in. See, the longer you know him, the more you learn. so yeah, more to the point, WAIT A WHILE LONGER! [at least i'd do that]
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 2:38 pm
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Sotur Tarrien ...When you think about it... do you have any doubts? Don't go through with it if you have doubts... that's never good considering the doubts, as tarrien here just mentioned, it's clear that you DO have doubts. Otherwise you wouldn't be asking. As for the actual marriage, I'd wait longer. 2 or 3 more years, or until you finish your schooling, like black sugar said. Sometimes it's pointless, but here's an example: my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. though jokingly, he's mentiones marriage, and we've talked about it. perhaps you should do that before actually getting married. second, and more to the point that the previous example, it was at the 6 months that we began our fights. Of course, they aren't common, or anything. we get along great. but my point is it was after the 6 months that the quarrel arouse. The longer the time, the "harder" it becomes to stay together. That's where love comes in. See, the longer you know him, the more you learn. so yeah, more to the point, WAIT A WHILE LONGER! [at least i'd do that] 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Nov 23, 2006 1:32 pm
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Posted: Sat Nov 25, 2006 9:07 am
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Posted: Sun Nov 26, 2006 7:56 pm
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Posted: Mon Nov 27, 2006 1:10 am
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Posted: Mon Nov 27, 2006 12:53 pm
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Arielace my man asked to marry-we been dating for 5 months. I love him so much-and I'm only 20. We have alot in commen, and we haven't had a fight yet. but still, Is it too soon to think about getting married? eek
The real question is do you have doubts??? Do you truely love this man??? Within yourself, do you see it down the road that you both can be happy or try to work on this relationship no matter what the circumstances??? Do you see having kids with him??? Are you ready for all the mysteries to unfold??? Edit: So how's the communication??? Do you guys tell all, or are you both, or one of you uncomfortable of sharing each others honest thoughts??? Marraige is just not rings to symbolize one's heart (or each others unbinding love), it's what's his is yours, what's yours is his; to be really one with each other. ...really privacy is no more; lies is out the door, honesty and trust is a must or marraige will simply fail like the rest. You guys need to balance each other. So when someone fails, one of you catches the fall...and when struggle comes running, there's a lot of compromise to be made. Are you capable of doing that??? Do you see him doing that, besides at the moment he makes you happy???
People can give you advices, but it's really within yourself to find the true answers. Time is the essence, so if you need time then be it, live together see if that works...you won't know somebody, or anybody until you live with them... because if it's true love it will wait.
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Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 12:43 pm
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Posted: Wed Dec 06, 2006 5:01 pm
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