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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:08 pm

I asked this guy to go to the movies with me this friday.
and he said yes and he gave me his number
blah blah blahh
and then i was talking to my friend on the phone
and her cousin had called me
and she said that he said that the only reason why he said yes
was because he knew that i liked him
and he didnt really wanna go to the movies with me

and im really sad
what should i do?
go to the movies and act like nothing is wrong?
or should i talk to him straight up? =[

What I posted here on 1-26-07

thanks all =]
but i found out today that he really didnt like me
and that hes not attracted to black girls
and also...

i called him yesterday
and i told him he doesnt have to go to the movies with me
so thats all settled

but im still broken hearted

but the part i dont get is he acts like he likes me
but wont admit it

Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:12 pm

wait your friends cousin said that the guy doesn't really like you?

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cheerchik

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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:16 pm

little_moon_girl

wait your friends cousin said that the guy doesn't really like you?

yes

Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:20 pm

cheerchik

little_moon_girl

wait your friends cousin said that the guy doesn't really like you?

yes

i bet she was lying. is she your age?

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Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 11:18 pm

I'd think it wise to ask him about it, don't lash out about it though... It's not good to keep things like that in... Ask him before you go to the movies, not after...it will save you stressing over it during the movie.

Posted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 6:02 am

true that. ask him b4, and that way u won't have to feel like u need to hide something from him. if he admits it to be true, then ask him why he did it. get answers to all ur questions, but don't do anything rash. if keep questions inside, u'll grow crazy wondering the "what if"'s. and if u do something rash, possibly the same will happen. plus, if u realize he was a jerk [hoping not, bcs that always hurt when one finds out] then with him answering questions u might also realize he wasn't worth ur time, and u won't be as hurt as u would. of course, it's better if nothing like that happens. usually that type of thing hurts like hell afterwards, and it's a further pain to get over it. but if it does, don't get too sad about it. life goes on, and the more u brood on something, the worse hte pain will be

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Posted: Fri Jan 26, 2007 5:13 pm

thanks all =]
but i found out today that he really didnt like me
and that hes not attracted to black girls
and also...

i called him yesterday
and i told him he doesnt have to go to the movies with me
so thats all settled

but im still broken hearted

but the part i dont get is he acts like he likes me
but wont admit it