|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:34 am
I... yeah, you read into that correctly. No girl problems = emo
No more than the rest of us, I'm afraid, La Belle. emo
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:37 am
I'm just more open about things.
Then I end up sleeping with people.
It's a horrible habit, though I don't regret the sex one bit. I'm feeling guilty about not feeling guilty or wrong about sleeping with people.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:42 am
That's a start, I think. Although I'm not one to give any kind of advice at all. sweatdrop
It's interesting, though. I can almost see myself having gone down a path like that instead of the one I did, had I not been homeschooled for those two years. I always was (and still am, to an extent) the class clown. sweatdrop
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:42 am
If you enjoy it and take precautions theres nothing wrong with that lifestyle
hey peeps I am mapling so I am having slow response hour ^^
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:47 am
EienKage That's a start, I think. Although I'm not one to give any kind of advice at all. sweatdrop It's interesting, though. I can almost see myself having gone down a path like that instead of the one I did, had I not been homeschooled for those two years. I always was (and still am, to an extent) the class clown. sweatdrop I was a good Catholic schoolgirl for a whole year out of my life. A PERFECT one. Mind you... I've always had a massive libido... *coughs* Imagine being a good catholic schoolgirl who can't stop wanting to get herself off? The guilt in that year of my life was outstanding, I was so suicidal, lol. ...wow I'm crunk.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:49 am
so what exactly is the discussion point O.o?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:50 am
Heya, Shram.
I wish I could be a perfect Catholic for a whole year. God, I'd love that. Can't say I'm there yet. =_=
I certainly wouldn't want you to be suicidal, though! gonk *huggles*
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:54 am
my school has stupid christian teachers whereas whatever you ask them about it they go "god is good" practically anyways.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:56 am
Eien, there are things that are more important than conforming to someone else's standards of "good" and "bad"
I realised that.
Sex is not bad, necessarily. Waiting is a personal choice, yes, and understandable. And I still don't regret my choice to lose my virginity (I did it when I was in a long-term relationship with someone I loved, regardless of the a*****e he turned into).
Being a good catholic (or good Jew, Muslim or _____) means feeling guilty for things that are not necessarily wrong. Find your own standards before deciding to follow anything. Honestly, it's how I realised I'm a Taoist at the closest turn, maybe a bit Buddhist, but overall I do not believe in a lot of religions simply because I disagree with a few major things that are common to all major religions.
Find out the fundamental truths on your own before deciding to follow what someone else has decided. That's an Eastern principle, that only you can find your path to enlightenment. No one can tell you these things but you.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:57 am
Shram, I'd prefer if you'd be just, y'know, a little more respectful about God and Christians around me. You're insulting me just as much as them. stare
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:59 am
EienKage Shram, I'd prefer if you'd be just, y'know, a little more respectful about God and Christians around me. You're insulting me just as much as them. stare I use the term as well. There are stupid Christians and smart Christians. Its a quantifier. I'm not sure how Shram meant it but I use the term "stupid ____" to talk about the stupid ones. Lord knows we had a stupid super-Catholic teacher at my Catholic high school. ******** nutter is gay as the day is long and he is deluding himself (he practically admitted to being gay and being "saved" by his wife"). There are two kinds of everything.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:02 am
EienKage Shram, I'd prefer if you'd be just, y'know, a little more respectful about God and Christians around me. You're insulting me just as much as them. stare I have nothing against God nor Christians I have something against the way my teachers are about it Norway isn't catholic its protestant so from what I can see the school hides behind god to hide the fact that they only care about money seriously me and a friend had some money trouble whereas because they don't know our parents they threaten us with throwing us out. and they have these discuss the bible and God days they always go around the answer and end up using the questions as the answer pisses me off I don't follow anything myself but I don't intentionally insult religions
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:05 am
La Belle Isolde Eien, there are things that are more important than conforming to someone else's standards of "good" and "bad" I realised that. Sex is not bad, necessarily. Waiting is a personal choice, yes, and understandable. And I still don't regret my choice to lose my virginity (I did it when I was in a long-term relationship with someone I loved, regardless of the a*****e he turned into). Being a good catholic (or good Jew, Muslim or _____) means feeling guilty for things that are not necessarily wrong. Find your own standards before deciding to follow anything. Honestly, it's how I realised I'm a Taoist at the closest turn, maybe a bit Buddhist, but overall I do not believe in a lot of religions simply because I disagree with a few major things that are common to all major religions. Find out the fundamental truths on your own before deciding to follow what someone else has decided. That's an Eastern principle, that only you can find your path to enlightenment. No one can tell you these things but you. Personal idea of what is good an right, La Belle? I'm a convert. I chose to follow these scruples. It's funny, actually. I met a man who lives where I do, same complex. He's Lutheran, goes to the Lutheran church that's down the street. It was kind of an introspective quip, but he said, "I could never be a Catholic. It's too hard." And I'm proud of my faith. I'm still a bit of a chickenshit about it in public. The Lord is helping me overcome that, and one day I personally hope to be one of those nutters. Call me mad if you like, I'd rather be if I can find my own peace and happiness in something that the world despises. Let them despise me too, I'll smile back with that placid grin and be at peace. Let them make a Christian hunt, saying "payback for the witches!" I'll cook and know I've been paid my salvation.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:09 am
EienKage Personal idea of what is good an right, La Belle? I'm a convert. I chose to follow these scruples. It's funny, actually. I met a man who lives where I do, same complex. He's Lutheran, goes to the Lutheran church that's down the street. It was kind of an introspective quip, but he said, "I could never be a Catholic. It's too hard." And I'm proud of my faith. I'm still a bit of a chickenshit about it in public. The Lord is helping me overcome that, and one day I personally hope to be one of those nutters. Call me mad if you like, I'd rather be if I can find my own peace and happiness in something that the world despises. Let them despise me too, I'll smile back with that placid grin and be at peace. Let them make a Christian hunt, saying "payback for the witches!" I'll cook and know I've been paid my salvation. Just keep checking in on yourself every once in a while to make sure that you still believe the same thing and that you still think it's right. Continuously examine yourself otherwise you can't grow as a person. I know many Christians who forget the whole point very quickly. Don't get too caught up in scripture that you forget some of the basics of right and wrong and lose touch with reality. Also, don't forget that even if you mostly agree with Catholicism, there are always some flaws with a system run by "sinners" as people are. We are not perfect, only God is.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:10 am
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|