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 Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:34 pm
Should the resident vegetarian come back later when the topic at hand is not raw meat?
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:35 pm
...What defines sexuality? Is it the physical attraction, the emotional-eros attraction, a combination of both, or is it something else?
Where this question popped up... well... *sings "I kissed a girl and I liked it.."* Not really that though... but the thought is odd.
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:36 pm
@Ciel: Don't worry, I think that topic on meat will die in the next minute or two
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:36 pm
Its a little of both... though it should have alot to do with physical attraction at first..
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:37 pm
I'm done with the meat. I only said it cause Umi brought it up.
Lin: I believe its a combination of both, but other factors can also apply.
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:38 pm
A combination of one's sex, gender, sexual preference, preference for emotional companionship, physical attraction, and some sort of chemistry.
The thought of kissing a girl is odd, or you've been thinking about kissing girls and you find it odd or...?
Both?? Both implies only two things. Dx
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:40 pm
I think it's a mixture of things Lin. As the others have said
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:40 pm
I'm not sure. My sexuality has always been fluid, though always at a male slant. Actually I've only felt strong emotional-eros attraction to guys, though there are a few girls that I would feel really strongly about, but only at around the filios level of emotional thought.
Edit: Physical, however, gets really confusing sometimes.
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:42 pm
Well it should come down to when you were in you first in your teens you should have found one gender more appealing physically then the other...in the pants...
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:42 pm
 Umi.: Hahah. You know the more silent I am, the more ahead I'll get. And if you really wanna catch up to me in my thinking, please go on ahead :3
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:45 pm
I think sexuality is fluid for a lot of people, but having a "male slant" can make you more aware of the fact (or a female slant, if you're a girl), since your preferences already lie outside what's typical.
I've been in relationships with girls, and they weren't horrible, or even bad. I have even been head-over-heels for a girl I worked with. Bit confusing at the time.
I don't identify as bisexual, though.
Sexuality is what you make of it. Obviously there're tons of facets, but mostly it's just how you identify personally.
Mugen: Or earlier than that. Or later than that. =/ And some people don't have a preference, and like both sexes. And then there are people for whom gender means nothing. Look up pansexual.
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:46 pm
It's a bit strange though sometimes.
I know that I can have a physical attraction for a girl, but the thing is my emotional responses would never align with that, and it's bothering me. Perhaps it's just lust and not true love, then, but it is troublesome.
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:47 pm
I don't think I have the attention span to try, Reiku. gonk
I'll just use my imagenation...
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:48 pm
I'm just not paying attention.
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 7:49 pm
You do that, Umi. You do that wink
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