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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:22 am
Good morning again, commoners...
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:22 am
As I was scrolling, I saw the whole "*Makes out all over you*" bit you told Kerri. Lmao, I was a little apprehensive as to what I would see next.
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:24 am
Chexednut As I was scrolling, I saw the whole "*Makes out all over you*" bit you told Kerri. Lmao, I was a little apprehensive as to what I would see next. Oh thats common for us ^^ So how are you? =D @Lin: Good day 3nodding How are you?
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:26 am
Lin is feeling very well, and very pompous...
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:26 am
I'm doing fine, thank you. Bass and I aren't on good terms, atm, though. >/
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:27 am
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:28 am
Chexednut I'm doing fine, thank you. Bass and I aren't on good terms, atm, though. >/ What did he break? =o I'm just hanging out with my new sidekick =D
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:32 am
Hrrmm... That doesn't sound good, Chex... :/
Hello Seph. How goes?
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:34 am
Viral C Chexednut I'm doing fine, thank you. Bass and I aren't on good terms, atm, though. >/ What did he break? =o I'm just hanging out with my new sidekick =D I don't know if you were around when he talked about it, but his uncle's in the hospital and I got very blunt with him. I hurt his feelings because he thought I was treating him as if he were a child.
Instead of sitting here and explaining it in detail, you can read it: http://chexednut.wordpress.com
EDIT: It's the very first post: Who said that the truth... blah-dee-blah.
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:39 am
In all honesty, I agree with what you put there, Chex. I just wouldn't have said something like that until later, when your friend would hopefully be more calm and rational about it, after some think.
Not suggesting that you lie; lying is worse than not saying anything at all. But perhaps some silence and time would have been needed first before saying anything.
Just my two cents to this matter.
Gawds... there has been lots of real-life drama from all of us...
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:42 am
Chexednut Viral C Chexednut I'm doing fine, thank you. Bass and I aren't on good terms, atm, though. >/ What did he break? =o I'm just hanging out with my new sidekick =D I don't know if you were around when he talked about it, but his uncle's in the hospital and I got very blunt with him. I hurt his feelings because he thought I was treating him as if he were a child.
Instead of sitting here and explaining it in detail, you can read it: http://chexednut.wordpress.com
EDIT: It's the very first post: Who said that the truth... blah-dee-blah.Yeah I think you did the right thing Xed 3nodding Though I think you have the same problem I do when helping people XD ^^; Lin: Really? I haven't noticed o.o
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:43 am
*Chuckles.* Silence from me is hard to get sometimes. The only time I'm quiet is when I'm in a bad mood, believe it or not.
I told him that my mouth does get ahead of me sometimes and that was a prime example of my tendency to blurt things out and hurt people's feelings. That's the only thing I'm sorry for.
Since then, he hasn't bothered to talk to me. And that's perfectly fine to me; he needs a break from talking to me every single day. xD
EDIT: I wasn't trying to help him in the least.
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:46 am
Silence is a hard thing to control. I think some time will be good, for him to think, and get himself grounded back. Regardless of the truth, though, I think he needs comfort from someone most of all, if only to recognize and accept the truth that could be happening. It's too bad he's distancing though... It sounds like, though you were the one who said that, that you could also be the person most beneficial, considering that he seems to like you a lot.
But don't mind the crazy guy. Not at all...
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:52 am
I don't like to talk about my problems with other people because they tend to respond with things like "You think that's bad. I've been through worse!" or "You have it so easy. Get over it." Luckily I do get over things very easily. But sometimes a person needs to feel pain and allow themselves to feel pain for just a little while. Especially after something's just happened. They just shouldn't keep themselves there. When they can be happy again they should accept it and move on.
People have different ways of dealing with things. What works for you isn't necessarily what works for them. As a friend it's more important to be there for what your friend needs. And as a general rule, I don't ever comment or give advice unless it's asked of me. It helps prevent those foot in mouth problems.
But that's just me~
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:54 am
wakusei I don't like to talk about my problems with other people because they tend to respond with things like "You think that's bad. I've been through worse!" or "You have it so easy. Get over it." Luckily I do get over things very easily. But sometimes a person needs to feel pain and allow themselves to feel pain for just a little while. Especially after something's just happened. They just shouldn't keep themselves there. When they can be happy again they should accept it and move on.
People have different ways of dealing with things. What works for you isn't necessarily what works for them. As a friend it's more important to be there for what your friend needs. And as a general rule, I don't ever comment or give advice unless it's asked of me. It helps prevent those foot in mouth problems.
But that's just me~ You think your issues about talking are bad? You should hear mine...
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