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Hadaka Kyoujin

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:09 am


Your Lord and Master has arrived
I am liable to make faults in my sentencing...and being misunderstood by people, I was joking around when I said that, although, I'll be it, it wasn't actually funny at all...and for that I apologize to Ala, and to any other's who were offended by it...
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:10 am


Just think before you speak. That's all that it takes. I know it's not exactly easy for you to empathise with other people, which makes it especially important for you to think about how it makes someone else feel.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:10 am


See you Bass.

*Holds up hands towards Trish and Madman rubbing them together*

Mhmm, toasty.
PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:11 am


Later Bass smile

@Madman - It's good that you're trying to control yourself. However, if you think you might do something you'd regret, I'd advise you to take a break. Go listen to some nice music or watch some youtube videos. Just calm down and then come back when you're feeling better.
And thank you for apologizing.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:12 am


People can no longer cover their eyes.


Lol it is getting pretty warm in here, isn't it?


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:13 am


Your Lord and Master has arrived
I don't actually have any soothing music...that most people listen to or would think to be soothing...also I actually do feel what most people around me are feeling...in my house I mean...and Sura please don't do that...
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And just so everybody knows, I usually joke or kid about death, or people being mentally handicapped, or physical handicapped...and most of my jokes actually sound like I'm just being an a**...

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:16 am


Well I have reached an understanding. Like I said, I have little patience for idiotic behaviour, but seeing as he is behaving like a respectful person, I can easily say I am cooling down.

Madman: I'm not talking about sympathy, I'm talking about empathy, the ability to put yourself in another person's position is not something that comes naturally to some people with aspergers. So be careful what you say and think about how it would affect that person. Thoughtlessness is something that gets out of hand easily if you're not keeping yourself in check. I would know I've done my fair share of it.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:18 am


@Madman - It doesn't have to be music that most people would find soothing. Just something that makes you feel better or more calm. If music wont help, then maybe play some solitaire or lay down and relax. Just take your mind off things and come back when your emotions aren't quite so peaked.
As for the jokes, if you want to make them then you should be prepared for some people to be offended by them. If you know it will make you sound like an a** and you don't want to upset someone, then it would be best not to make them at all.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:20 am


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Umm...I'm actually not talking about sympathy either...I actually feel their emotions and that's usually how I feel that day or act...the only time I get a rest from it is a night, and I get cranky when I get woken up...and my mom is usually in a sour mood, even when she wakes me up, so I get what she feels and my own...and that makes me a somewhat unbearable person to live with...
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:22 am


Are really sure you have asperger's then?

The guy that I know with it, IRL, he can't read facial expressions (well he can now, he's taught himself) but even now he can't tell for the life of him if a girl is flirting with him. And being able to truly put himself in another person's position or pick up on what they're feeling is difficult and something he's had to carefully learn over the years.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:22 am


Your Lord and Master has arrived
Also, doing nothing about how I feel will usually make it worse...unless I'm tired, as in sleepy, I have also done art when I'm upset, but it just makes me more upset, writing doesn't actually help either...
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:23 am


Buy a punching bag, beat the crap out of it when you're pissed.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:23 am


Your Lord and Master has arrived
btw, I can't read expression either, I just feel what another person is feeling, expressions don't always tell what a person is feeling...
I like potatoes
I have once actually, I got pissed at my mom and started beating the crap out of it until I tore it to shreds, same with a stress ball, I actually popped one because of how pissed I was, and anytime I do any thing that pumps adrenaline into my system, I get pissed even more...and then when I'm done tearing w/e it is that causes the adrenaline to pump, I usually am still pissed, sometimes even more than when I started...
PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:24 am


People can no longer cover their eyes.


That just kinda sounds like depression to me.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:26 am


No, body language does as well as tone of voice. As I've never had aspergers I don't really know what it entails. But true empathy is hard even for people without aspergers. It's not just understanding how a person feels but why they feel that way. So thinking about how something you say will make others feel is important. Very important. It's how you get people to not hate you.

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