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Jeepers creepers!!!!!! gonk (don't worry I'm poor too)This is a bad idea but...Run away and live off of stuff you find in the woods or school? other than that I'm outta ideas to help you sorry sweatdrop

So you're not able -or willing- to leave, but no one, including yourself, is trying to do anything to make it better? Everyone is stubborn, no one wants to do anything about it, and it sounds like this boyfriend is the main problem. Hmm....if you can, talk to your mom alone about this boyfriend and try not to get into an arguement no matter who starts it. And try to work out something so that YOU don't have to deal with this crap and THEY don't start on you for whatever reason. I'm just babbaling now so I'll shut up. sweatdrop

Fair enough. Sometimes all you can do is stick it out until you can leave under proper circumstances. Sorry, didn't mean to intrude, but racism really pisses me off. Stupid decisions are tie for first.

I know I keep pushing, but is there any possible chance for you to stop dissing you mom for a second to just have a moment of calm? The boyfriend, yeah stay away from him like you want to. You're mom is still your mom and you should try to make peace with her. Take away all the things you dislike about her and what is there left? A mom that honestly cares for her son. That's what's left in every mother no matter what is going on. Find that part of her and at least spend time with that part of her.

I'm trying my best to understand this! gonk
You cannot force your mom to change her beliefs, just help her understand the beliefs of others. If she is constantly blaming her faults on others then she really hasn't learned anything at all in the years she has lived on earth. Fact: you can help her change.
Your mom is racist, so are a ton of other people in the world. She has to understand that showing discrimination towards others doesn't help anyone and that if she continues then she will have trouble with jobs, since most of them are diverse.
Since she is lying then there must be reasons why. There could be alot of reasons, try narrowing them down so you could figure out why she is lying(along with backstabbing people)
If she is a slut then she obviously doesn't feel secure with whomever she is with, or wants them to change even if they can't.
Blaming her faults on others is just annoying, point out all her faults(as I am sure you probably have?) and try finding -family- friends to help her change.
Doesn't listen to you...MAKE her listen even if it's hard.
Mocking your beliefs is incredibly immature. If she isn't willing to even consider other peoples beliefs then don't make her, at least have her be respectful to other beliefs whenever someone with it is in conversation with her or is around her.
(I'm serious get counceling you stubborn people!)
I'm tryin to be a friend so don't attack me.

I am not attacking you, I am trying to explain the situation....I am not forcing her to believe what I do, she hates me because she does not believe what she does. She is trying to change me and she openly mocks me.
She has not changed her way of life for years and she goes on about how she never changes and what not, nor has she for the time I could understand. I just do not try to change her I tell her that i believe what I do because this is what I feel and she shoots me done by mocking me or saying something ignorant.
She is racist for reasons unknown too me. She hates "Chinks" because they drive horrible? She hates "Wetbacks" because they stink? and she always refer to a black person as a "niger" and believes they should be slaves, or she leads me too blieve this because she always says "Who do I look like, your niger?" When ever my sister's leave a mess.
I know why she lies, it is in her nature ever since she has grown up. She wants too prove to her mom she is ncie and lives nice and has a wonderful life. She dresses to impress my grandmother. She lies too people because she does not want the eggects of their actions upon her. She will just go home and talk about thet person later.
I ahve pointed out her faults and her defense is "Do not look at my past actions" and I go on to explain they are her actions taht she is doing today....then she goes off and I just shut up and walk away. This was before I started not taking her crap. She is a person that does not like to go out of her comfort zone, she does not want to understand my beliefs she does not want to stop what she is doing, to this day she is leading me too believe she is cheating on brett with his brother.
So waht I am simply saing is I do not need help because I just gave up on trying. She is not worth my time, I have a life of my own too accomplish liek making up for the mistakes she made on me and my sisters. Living a life where I do not make a stupid mistake of having a kid before getting married. Taking my chance at life and not be some lower class person.

I am having a lunching with my Grandmother sometime next week, I believe. I planned to tell her everything while we are together, alone. I only get to see my grandmother with family reunions and this posses a great time for me to just hang with my grandmother. She is awesome xp
I want to make up for the mistakes my mother had. I am never not going to listen too my kids. I am going too tell them everything. I am not going to lie about trivial crap because that only leads to problems.
I am lower class as well. Does not mean you cannot find a way too make money. Your parents are the ones that are running the place right now. So if you choose not to take an oppertunity to make a better life then that is on you. I know I am going too find and take the oppertunity that will get me a push in life.