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Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 9:58 pm
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 9:15 pm
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Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 4:36 pm
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Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 10:53 pm
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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 12:10 am
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Dude. I am going to be cold but, don't bother.
There is no such thing as living off of something so one sided. I tried, took me three weeks to eat a meal when things went sour.
You seem to think like a level headed guy, go and find a girl that doesn't say 'I'm volatile'. I mean, what kind of threat or excuse or anything is that? and if she is giving you that much of a cold shoulder. Dude, no man should have to force himself to deal with that, it's cold and wrong, you give her a place in your heart and she tells you to hit the road if she thinks someone might see her with you, she sounds likes a 'popularity complex' so worried something might ruin her reputation to the rest of everyone.
There are a million girls that are kind and sweet and loving and everything else that means something in the long run. Go looking for a girl that loves you, a girl that wants your hug. You deserve it, and there may be some girl right now who may like you that you haven't given a true chance because of this. try there first my freind.
thanks you for your time.
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Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 11:39 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 8:19 pm
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phynx is right. in the long run, youshould go for what you deserve. you don't need a girl that is more conscious of what others think rather than how she feels. i know we're jumping topics here but i have to mention this while my momentum is still going. if you should consider someone close enough to be a sister/brother..it hsould be special. like i mean, deserving. it shoudln't be thrown around like a casual thing coz once it does the value of the 'word' or 'title' takes a lesser meaning. i.e. a former bestfriend of mine considered my ex her bestfriend, too. but as time went along, he realized she's been calling every other close friend of hers bestfriends too. so, on his part, her epitaph for him lost meaning. he thought, "s**t, you're her bestfriend, too? and you over there, you're her bf too? what the hell am i then? how many 'bestfriends' are there?" i don't think she deserved that title as your sister, as you say. next time, have more reservations razz
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 10:41 pm
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daggblu4 phynx is right. in the long run, youshould go for what you deserve. you don't need a girl that is more conscious of what others think rather than how she feels. i know we're jumping topics here but i have to mention this while my momentum is still going. if you should consider someone close enough to be a sister/brother..it hsould be special. like i mean, deserving. it shoudln't be thrown around like a casual thing coz once it does the value of the 'word' or 'title' takes a lesser meaning. i.e. a former bestfriend of mine considered my ex her bestfriend, too. but as time went along, he realized she's been calling every other close friend of hers bestfriends too. so, on his part, her epitaph for him lost meaning. he thought, "s**t, you're her bestfriend, too? and you over there, you're her bf too? what the hell am i then? how many 'bestfriends' are there?" i don't think she deserved that title as your sister, as you say. next time, have more reservations razz well there's no point im one of teh biggest loners of the school now.
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Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 9:48 pm
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Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 2:11 pm
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Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 8:41 pm
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Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 10:12 pm
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K1T3 well here's an update. the girl i liked lu stared at the asian guy down my row. always smiling when she looked at him. when i smiled she was disgusted. me:what? what's wrong? when you smile it seems as if you're disguisted. me:what? you just look ugly don't do it again. *she turns to look at the asian guy* me: maybe you should be with him he's much better than me . you always smile at him. actually i don't like chinese. me: o? if you ahd to choose would you choose me or him? actually neither cuz i liek white guys. not to be racial or anything me: .... i'm guessing that WAS racially motivated.....that's the 1st time i've ever been shot down mainly because of my skin color. after that i decided to not speak to her like i used to. she deserves the "aquaintance" title instead of friend or "good friend"
yea, that does sound racially motivated, as you say. but if it's her choice of attraction, it's not your problem. although, i won't blame you if get affected by it. but next time, try not to be so presumptuous and suggest something that's beyond your knowledge (i.e. who she should choose over). if you notice something, just try to keep to your business. if it's idle curiousity like you asking what's wrong w/ her, then i guess it's normal. there are lots of girls out there who could see past race. you might not find one that's ideal for you now, but just become comfortable in your own skin first. right now, worry about yourself and learn how to know yourself. have that solace and things will come to place. not necessarily in that order =)
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Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 3:43 pm
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daggblu4 K1T3 well here's an update. the girl i liked lu stared at the asian guy down my row. always smiling when she looked at him. when i smiled she was disgusted. me:what? what's wrong? when you smile it seems as if you're disguisted. me:what? you just look ugly don't do it again. *she turns to look at the asian guy* me: maybe you should be with him he's much better than me . you always smile at him. actually i don't like chinese. me: o? if you ahd to choose would you choose me or him? actually neither cuz i liek white guys. not to be racial or anything me: .... i'm guessing that WAS racially motivated.....that's the 1st time i've ever been shot down mainly because of my skin color. after that i decided to not speak to her like i used to. she deserves the "aquaintance" title instead of friend or "good friend" yea, that does sound racially motivated, as you say. but if it's her choice of attraction, it's not your problem. although, i won't blame you if get affected by it. but next time, try not to be so presumptuous and suggest something that's beyond your knowledge (i.e. who she should choose over). if you notice something, just try to keep to your business. if it's idle curiousity like you asking what's wrong w/ her, then i guess it's normal. there are lots of girls out there who could see past race. you might not find one that's ideal for you now, but just become comfortable in your own skin first. right now, worry about yourself and learn how to know yourself. have that solace and things will come to place. not necessarily in that order =)
i asked her why she said those thigns she said that she didn't know why. probably cuz she never had 1 b4.
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 6:50 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 1:07 am
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