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Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 6:02 pm
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I understand that you are afraid of what your parents will think, but you have to understand that you're not the only one feeling like this. There are many people who feel the same way. It's not bad, it's just so uncommon before that it's hard to accept it now. You should tell your parents when you feel like you are ready to tell them, you will have to tell them eventually or they'll find out somehow. So you should probably think of telling them soon, the worst is that they'll be shocked and speechless, but that beats having them find out and be disappointed that you didn't have the guts to tell them yourself. They are your parents, they may not accept it, but they are still your parents.
Don't be afraid, you can't help it if you feel that way. Just be yourself and stand for what you believe in, no matter how many people don't believe what you believe in. If everyone did, this world would be very boring. By posting that your gay here, didn't make me leave and not offer you my advice. Just be yourself, that's all you can do. I'm being myself right now, offering an advice to you. ^_-
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Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 12:57 pm
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Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 12:35 pm
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 11:10 am
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 1:45 pm
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Ioji I'm bi and I probably won't ever tell my parents unless I'm in a same sex relationship and far-far away. If your parents are against it, don't tell them. They're your parents and they should love you no matter what, but just to be safe you should probably wait. That's just my view. My dad is very judgmental and , like, literally hates homosexuals. He'd blow a blood vessel. And my mom's a hardxcore Christian who thinks all homosexuals are going straight to hell. But, y'know. I kinda went off on my own issues. ^^; But I guess what I'm saying it that it really depends on your parents. So, you said that your dad's really against it, so wait just for your safety.
no ofeense, but thats horrible advice. his parents are ppl he should trust. so what if hes gay? its not bad and nothing to be ashamed of. ur in love with another person who has deep feelings for u- same with a guy and a girl. if u cant open up to ur parents, u cant open up to anyone.
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Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 9:40 pm
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well, im straight, but soo many of my friends are las, gay or bi, adn i ahev no problem with them, and if your fathers against it heaps, then when you tel him , if he has a problemo with it, and if he's ashamed to be your father, then he just hasn't grown up yet.
but i think youreally should tell them, becaue it would be soo much more terrible if they found out from some one else, cause they'll go through the whole "trust" issue with you. So im not sure if you'll take this as good advice, but im strongly suggesting you tell you parents, and stuff, you neednt be worried or afraid about it either, my personal view of homosexuality is that, well, there's no problem with it, it just who you are, and if some one cant except that, then they arent worth it anyway
((lol, my gay friends are sooo much cooler than my male friends))
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Posted: Wed Dec 05, 2007 8:06 pm
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Posted: Wed Dec 05, 2007 8:12 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 1:45 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 4:08 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 4:49 pm
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Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 9:13 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 12:53 am
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 3:11 pm
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My Angelic Touch Ioji I'm bi and I probably won't ever tell my parents unless I'm in a same sex relationship and far-far away. If your parents are against it, don't tell them. They're your parents and they should love you no matter what, but just to be safe you should probably wait. That's just my view. My dad is very judgmental and , like, literally hates homosexuals. He'd blow a blood vessel. And my mom's a hardxcore Christian who thinks all homosexuals are going straight to hell. But, y'know. I kinda went off on my own issues. ^^; But I guess what I'm saying it that it really depends on your parents. So, you said that your dad's really against it, so wait just for your safety. no ofeense, but thats horrible advice. his parents are ppl he should trust. so what if hes gay? its not bad and nothing to be ashamed of. ur in love with another person who has deep feelings for u- same with a guy and a girl. if u cant open up to ur parents, u cant open up to anyone. Seeing as how I gave a personal example, I'm kind of a living contradictory to that statement. Neither of my parents know that I'm bi and all of my friends do because my friends will support and my parents will not.
I also said that it depends on his parents, so if there is concern for his well-being he shouldn't tell them.
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 2:05 pm
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