My murmur vanished by the time I was 1 and reappeared when I was 20. That's when they decided to actually do an echo and find out what the heck was going on, so apparently I had been living all my life with a malformed heart valve, and my life was at risk every time I got a bacterial infection or went to the dentist, and I didn't even know it until I was 20.
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