On being lonely

[CeraKnight]

my problem is i will date a guy and at about the 1 1/2yr mark. i will end up dumping them. It's like you know how when you love someone you over look their flaws and when they do certain things you just ignore it and decide to love them for them? well at that certain mark its all of a sudden like I can't do it anymore and all that stuff is building up and just bugs me.. i don't know maybe its God's way of telling me I'm not supposed to be with those people. who knows.. but heres hoping one day that stops happening.

p.s.
and still feel free to message me I'm still bored lol  

[Julien_Isfange]

SaturnineZero

I actually just got out of a really bad relationship of two years in June. It was very hard at first to not have that person around all the time and to be with because we lived together for the entirety of the relationship. I found myself wanting to hurry up and be with someone again because I just couldn't stand being so alone feeling, but that's why, I suppose, they call them "rebound relationships". It's taken up until the end of November, beginning of December, to finally feel okay with not being with anyone. And if I do find someone, I know now that it won't be "on the rebound", but because I actually feel ok and ready to start dating someone again. I have a cat, and she helped a bit, but you can't get the same sort of companionship with them as you would a human. Especially after so long of a time with someone. Hope this helps and good luck. heart I'm here if you wanna talk more. It's hard, I know.

it does thank you 3nodding feel free to drop me a line  

[Julien_Isfange]

Lil Brat

For the last several years I have been Happily Unmarried ~ and have opted out of the dating scene. Yes it does get lonely sometimes, then I remember how miserable relationships can be and the horrors of dating. Having children tends to lessen the feeling alone thing ~ pets are also great. Work and Gaia are my main grown-up outlets, along with a few good friends. I also have very good conversations with my 19 year old daughter. Sometimes I worry she may be too mature for her age... not that I want her to go out and start drinking or something, but I worry she'll miss out on some of the best years of her youth as she focuses so much on career and how best to live the rest of her life so as not to screw up... sweatdrop

Would that I had been that smart at that age gonk

that's ok, I have been noting in my measly 26 years the hind sight tends to be 20/20. best you can do is look forward and move on to the best, some things are quite goooood after time time. and your daughter might just loosen up enough (key word right there) in her own time ^-^  

[CeraKnight]

in my 24 yrs i have managed to screw up 3 engagements sad I often wonder if I could have done things different.. gods but I don't want to live in the past. but without it will i ever learn for the future.?.  

[Corbin Noir]

In my 41 years

...I'd better stop before I embarrass myself (further). stare  

[CeraKnight]

Corbin Noir

In my 41 years

...I'd better stop before I embarrass myself (further). stare

hehe it's ok  

[Julien_Isfange]

Corbin Noir

In my 41 years

...I'd better stop before I embarrass myself (further). stare

baaa thats only halfway, your doing just fine  

[Draconian Pheonix]

CeraKnight

in my 24 yrs i have managed to screw up 3 engagements sad I often wonder if I could have done things different.. gods but I don't want to live in the past. but without it will i ever learn for the future.?.

Heh, no worries, I've done 2 engagements and a marriage.  

[CeraKnight]

Draconian Pheonix

CeraKnight

in my 24 yrs i have managed to screw up 3 engagements sad I often wonder if I could have done things different.. gods but I don't want to live in the past. but without it will i ever learn for the future.?.

Heh, no worries, I've done 2 engagements and a marriage.

well i hope to get an actual marriage in there somewhere.  

[Julien_Isfange]

CeraKnight

Draconian Pheonix

CeraKnight

in my 24 yrs i have managed to screw up 3 engagements sad I often wonder if I could have done things different.. gods but I don't want to live in the past. but without it will i ever learn for the future.?.

Heh, no worries, I've done 2 engagements and a marriage.

well i hope to get an actual marriage in there somewhere.

you'll find someone for yourself, its 3 billion guys on earth, your chances are good  

[Draconian Pheonix]

CeraKnight

Draconian Pheonix

CeraKnight

in my 24 yrs i have managed to screw up 3 engagements sad I often wonder if I could have done things different.. gods but I don't want to live in the past. but without it will i ever learn for the future.?.

Heh, no worries, I've done 2 engagements and a marriage.

well i hope to get an actual marriage in there somewhere.

Hopefully not like mine, My wife cheated on me had a kid and then stole it and moved to Australia.  

[CeraKnight]

that may be true but when you place the odds on finding the "perfect" one.. that many guys doesn't help lol  

[CeraKnight]

Draconian Pheonix

CeraKnight

Draconian Pheonix

CeraKnight

in my 24 yrs i have managed to screw up 3 engagements sad I often wonder if I could have done things different.. gods but I don't want to live in the past. but without it will i ever learn for the future.?.

Heh, no worries, I've done 2 engagements and a marriage.

well i hope to get an actual marriage in there somewhere.

Hopefully not like mine, My wife cheated on me had a kid and then stole it and moved to Australia.

ok that just sucks  

[Draconian Pheonix]

I was actually somewhat glad to be rid of her if you can imagine. The fact that she Moved my house while I was at Burning Man did kinda suck.  

[Julien_Isfange]

Draconian Pheonix

I was actually somewhat glad to be rid of her if you can imagine. The fact that she Moved my house while I was at Burning Man did kinda suck.

dude that's rough, pardon my french but ******** that b***h and good ridance