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Your_Moirail

Wealthy Gekko

PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 7:02 pm
I KNOW!!! And there is no way I can leave the church, My family has been going here for about 4 years D=

WHAT SHOULD I DO?? ><
 
PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 7:13 pm
Pray. Serious, on the knees type prayer. Get your boyfriend in on it too. Study your Bible. I'll pray for you too. As soon as you can, I'd find somewhere else to go. You tried, and that's what He asks of us.

There are a lot of Psalms about deliverance and the Lord protecting us and seeing us through. One that really helped me was the 27th.

Quote:
The Lord is my light and my salvation.

Who is there to fear?

The Lord is my life's fortress.

Who is there to be afraid of?


2 Evildoers closed in on me to tear me to pieces.

My opponents and enemies stumbled and fell.

3 Even though an army sets up camp against me,

my heart will not be afraid.

Even though a war breaks out against me,

I will still have confidence {in the Lord}.


4 I have asked one thing from the Lord.

This I will seek:

to remain in the Lord's house all the days of my life

in order to gaze at the Lord's beauty

and to search for an answer in his temple.

5 He hides me in his shelter when there is trouble.

He keeps me hidden in his tent.

He sets me high on a rock.

6 Now my head will be raised above my enemies who surround me.

I will offer sacrifices with shouts of joy in his tent.

I will sing and make music to praise the Lord.

7 Hear, O Lord, when I cry aloud.

Have pity on me, and answer me.

8 {When you said,}

“Seek my face,”

my heart said to you,

“O Lord, I will seek your face.”

9 Do not hide your face from me.

Do not angrily turn me away.

You have been my help.

Do not leave me!

Do not abandon me, O God, my savior!

10 Even if my father and mother abandon me,
the Lord will take care of me.
11 Teach me your way, O Lord.

Lead me on a level path

because I have enemies who spy on me.

12 Do not surrender me to the will of my opponents.

False witnesses have risen against me.

They breathe out violence.

13 I believe that I will see the goodness of the Lord

in this world of the living.


14 Wait with hope for the Lord.

Be strong, and let your heart be courageous.

Yes, wait with hope for the Lord.


Psalms 27:1-14 (GW)


We will pray for you and be here for you. We're part of the body of our Lord Jesus Christ, and we're here for you. More importantly, He is there for you. Don't forget that no matter how bad it might seem, our Father is there, holding us in His hand.  

rosadria


Your_Moirail

Wealthy Gekko

PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 7:16 pm
WOAH!! I cried when I read that!!
THANK YOU SOOOOOOOO MUCH!! ><
I OWE YOU **HUGZ**
 
PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 7:29 pm
=D
We can really count on Him. He won't give you anything you can't handle. The almighty God who created the entire universe by the power of His spoken word loves and protects you. He's so much bigger than you and I and this trial. See some of the descriptions that the prophets who saw Him (I'm thinking of Ezekiel here) say. He really is beautiful and mighty. So, don't worry. Place your trust in Him.  

rosadria


Your_Moirail

Wealthy Gekko

PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 7:32 pm
Wow, You rele inspired me :]
Im not going to let all the other girls in my church suffer this too
IM STANDING UP, I CAN DO IT!!!



........I might be in over my head, But im not going down without fighting until I lose
 
PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 7:41 pm
Trust in God wink
Be kind and patient, even though they are not. Model Christ in your life, even if they do not. You'll make it.  

rosadria


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Wealthy Gekko

PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 7:51 pm
=D Ur awsome  
PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 7:58 pm
Feel free to PM me if you need anything. Or just ask somebody. We're all friends here.  

rosadria


Your_Moirail

Wealthy Gekko

PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 8:09 pm
Always~
im adding you
 
PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 10:40 pm
Sorry I'm late on seeing this. After reading everything I am crying. What do they plan on doing if you to ever decide to get married? I have never heard of such a thing, and your own mother slapped you for speaking up with the word of God? Why should you be 'disciplined' for having a boyfriend? I am so sorry to hear this and can't imagine how any one could deal with this. You are brave for standing up to them. I'll be praying for you and your boyfriend. I'll also pray for the church members to go back to the true God, because whoever they're worshiping it is not the true God of the bible.  

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Irawryouz

PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 11:52 pm
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You need a new church.

The Church God has called us to is one of unconditional love and worship. If they think they should be able to stop a true follower of Christ from worshiping their Heavenly Father, they are sadly mistaken.

Leave the hypocrites before they find other ways to make you stumble.

And in the meantime, make sure this boyfriend isn't causing others that are truly in the faith to stumble. So long his and your behavior isn't influencing others badly, there should be no reason to have to 'discipline' you or him.

AGREED anyone who shuns someone out for their "sin" clearly is NOT following what God would want them to do.
I wouldn't say you have to absolutely go to an official church (as in a building), but at least study the Bible with other Christians. The church is a body of people, not a building... I think by doing this, it makes learning with Christ a lot more intimate and personal, than just listening to someone recite what has sadly turned into ritualism, instead of something that actually has a symbolic meaning.

I hate ritualism so much... It completely takes away meaning from communion, prayer, and worship.  
PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 12:00 am
Yumi421
It went HORRIBLE!! They called me names and my mother (one of the leaders) got up and slapped me. Infront of all the other leaders!! I went and cried in the bathroom for the rest of service...
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!! DOES SHE HAVE DOWNS SYNDROME!?
Wow, talk about unreasonable!
It really sounds like your church is from colonial times, during the Salem witch trials.
You might want to look into going on Dr. Phil or something... Sorry for making a joke out of it, but seriously, they're being ignorant and clearly aren't very godly.  

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 12:01 am
SECSY
Hahahah... Are you Catholic?
I have yet to see where the bible states that you can't have a boyfriend or girlfriend.


Hmm, it does sound Catholic but no. She's Penticostal which actually surprised me. Also what surprises me is how this is not on the news. I hear about idiotic stuff like this all the time via news.  
PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 2:34 pm
thats not right. /:

if you don't mind me asking, what dominion is your church?

& I'll definitely pray for you.
 

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