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 Posted: Sun Oct 15, 2006 2:31 pm
sidhes However, I wouldn't have been going out with my bf for 6 months already if it hadn't been me who went ahead and kissed him smile Amen. xd I think it isn't a coincidence that the males that have posted in this thread are the quiet, shy ones. You are on Gaia, after all... This is a place where you can meet with ladies, talk, and not have to worry about anything other than what your words say. But don't be afraid to step out of this box, guys! There's a billion women out there looking for people like you- previous posts are right- we do love us some confidence. But a lasting relationship with someone shy is a TRILLION times better than a fleeting one with a dude with a big head. The End.
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Posted: Sun Oct 15, 2006 7:54 pm
I beg your pardon, I am both male and have posted in this thread, but do not consider myself shy or quiet by any means. I may not be the most out-going or brash, but I would much prefer the term "reserved."
I know how to have a good time when I want to. rolleyes
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 1:55 am
gamer014 My biggest problem, as you said, is asking them out. You're talking all friendly and then later that day you try to pop the question. They go "Hi [your name]." then you go "Uh, um, uhhh". You just lose what your going to say and get lost. i was the same way....but as most people online its easier to act like something you want to be and not whom you really are...I play everquest and thats how i met my fiance....i think if you want to ask a girl out i would suggest seeing what she would like to do and hang out with her and slowly make it into a date if she goes with it then you know its good stuff from there if not...just be your normal nice self....and just make sure she enjoys herself
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 7:34 am
dboyzero I beg your pardon, I am both male and have posted in this thread, but do not consider myself shy or quiet by any means. I may not be the most out-going or brash, but I would much prefer the term "reserved." I know how to have a good time when I want to. rolleyes Sorry... I wasn't trying to suggest that you can't "have a good time". I know very well that reserved peoples are often the most fun. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Oct 17, 2006 1:27 pm
I was friends with my current gf b4 we started dating
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Posted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 1:18 pm
I think I could get a GF, I just want to wait until I get out of high school. I've got way too much to do right now.
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Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 4:58 pm
My best friends boy friend totaly loves me but I think he won't ask me out because he knows what i'll say to him and that I'll tell the whole world and if did ask me out I would have to die because I hate him! So I can see why guys are nevous!
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Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 11:52 pm
Just get over it, and ask her out.
The worst she can say is no, and if she does, MOVE ON.
Rejection is natural. Without it, no one would ever learn how to be strong or grow, or even how to fix their faults.
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Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 8:14 am
someone earlier mentioned girls who just want to be friends. I've had an interesting experience with that. When I wanted a boy, I was too shy to tell him, so I made friends with him, and he thought thwat's all I wanted. It took six months before he asked me out, and we've been together a year and a half. If one of your best friends is a girl, and she hangs out with you more than other girls, and she's shy, then you may be misunderstanding the reason that she's there. If you like her, ask her out, she might be waiting.
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Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 9:47 am
My question would be, why does it always have to be the guy to ask the girl out? Guys are bashful too, same as girls. It all comes down to who's more willing to take the first step.
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Posted: Fri Dec 08, 2006 6:15 am
well guys are shy what can i say
sadly girls got more courage than guys as it seem on this forum
hehehehe kinda thinking about it im shy too !!![/color]
3nodding 3nodding 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 10:33 pm
((Hello))
Yes....Looks are good...thats what usually gets you started to talk to the person....but I think Personality is KEY
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Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 5:36 pm
dboyzero My question would be, why does it always have to be the guy to ask the girl out? Guys are bashful too, same as girls. It all comes down to who's more willing to take the first step. I know this will be really strange coming form a girl but im a Bisexual and i asked my current grilfriend out redface . I think grils dotn aask guys out because of like our parents traditiosn and all that. But hey Everyone has to ask some one out at some point. I can see why you ment why does a guy have to do it, Its the same reason that giys dont do it that girls dont do it.
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 5:56 am
I'm not into girls but I'm going to answer anyway. lol First it's personality. Is she nice? Classy? Deep? Easy to talk to? Trustworthy? Nonmaterialistic? If it's a yes for them all then she is definately someone I could hang out with. The next big one is beliefs. Is she for gay marriage and okay with gays? Does she believe that P. Bush and the rest of his supporters are right? My biggies are acceptance with people and being open minded and especially not afraid of standing up for themselves.
Looks never matter to me. All that I ask for is being conscious of hygiene and having basic manners.
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