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@Sahihen- After the divorce, Iwent and got counseling, and I thought it was boring. She didn't really get me at all...I jsut sat and made little figures out of clay. THat was fun, though ,so...
@Chex- Ionly draw the characters of my stories nad some random things, but my mind places thing in there, so I jsut draw what I see in my mind.
@Moofasa- ah, looks like someone finally understands me, and it's someone I haven't seen in a while. Interesting...but yes, that's almost exactly how I feel. And the counseling thing- at school after the divorce, I joined a school group called Banana Splits. It was about divorce and kids, and I thought it sucked. We were supposed to make family crests, and with little quote things...mine was "E pluribus unum", out of many, one, meaning that my family was just one suffering from divorce and stuff, and the rest of the group misunderstood me and got mad. Sucks stare
spiif- yup. Sort of...I never said I have pessimistic veiw of life {though once or twice I've actually thought it would be interestign to commit suicide, but then I thought about all the people who would miss me and thought, I can't do that to them} but other than that yeah...whatev...
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Posted: Tue Dec 30, 2008 7:11 am
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Posted: Tue Dec 30, 2008 8:22 pm
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Posted: Wed Dec 31, 2008 11:18 am
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 10:41 am
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 10:44 am
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 11:20 am
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 11:34 am
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 11:51 am
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 1:40 pm
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 2:30 pm
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Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2009 2:35 pm
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Posted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 9:16 pm
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vrgnBlu People would blame me because he likes to lie and say we prompted him to do it. It sucks. He never got the smae abuse I did, Sanxo. He was never thrown across a rom and into a highchair. nothing like that ever happened to him. He was asleep ahlf the time anyway. I just want him to stop being such a b*****d and to be nice for once. Just because you want something doesn't mean you always get it. You have to deal with the hand you're dealt. My mom, while not abusive, never really gets emotionally connected with me and hasn't since my dad left. She sees too much of my dad in me or something so I get the brunt of her verbal abuse while my brothers get off scott free. Is it fair? No. But will my mom suddenly start treating me fairly? No. Learn to be safe, learn that he's probably not going to ever be a nice and loving brother but he will need your support. Either that or when you turn 18 cut him out of your life and say goodbye to another abusive man. BUT YOU CAN'T MAKE HIM CHANGE JUST BECAUSE YOU WANT HIM TO, JUST BECAUSE YOU LOVE HIM, OR JUST BECAUSE IT'S NOT FAIR. BECAUSE LIFE ISN'T FAIR.
The reason he doesn't remember, by the way, is because in a child's eyes a parent is either good or evil, not both. He chose to block out the bad things, you chose to block out the good. Both are coping mechanisms, both are legitimate responses to your dad's horrible behaviour. He can either seek help or end up being the same kind of person. It's not your job to fix it. -La Belle Isolde-
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