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 Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:04 pm
Rydia-Beck dark_shy_angel Rydia-Beck I'm sorry angie.. My mom has been married 3 times after my father.. They all sucked.. I sympathize... Even after dad and every other time.. when they'd leave she'd say that's it! but I loved and love her.. I'd never tell her don't if she fell for someone again because we're both adults and I love her... But if you suffer for that situation like I did when I was your age then you've every right to object... But as you both are grow later.. Try to understand..K? Yes but i'm just afraid she'll get upset at me. She'll start throwing stuff out the door causing a huge scene. I would move in with my dad but i'll just be worse with his depression. Right now, I'm stuck in with his damn bribing and everything. I seriously don't know what to do. If I had my choice i'd live in california where I don't have to deal wiht my parents bs.... If they both are causing this much stress.. and you are.. 17? 17 right?... I'd just stay w/the one who stays out of your life the most... Ppl need parents in their life growing up... but if they're both just negative influenceces.. Just choose the one who won't bother you the most.. Not telling you to choose the one who'll let you stay out and never check on you.. Don't want you to get hurt and disappear.. But they sound like they need to hurry and figure this out themselves and move on to more important things.. Like being there for loved ones whom's always there for them.. 3nodding ... well i wouldnt choose... if it comes down to having to pick a parent you might be better off screaming at both of them and telling them to get a grip on reality and you be the bigger person out of everyone.
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:11 pm
i swear to go sometimes i really think the power rangers just arnt gonna make it.
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:12 pm
dark_shy_angel Rydia-Beck dark_shy_angel Rydia-Beck I'm sorry angie.. My mom has been married 3 times after my father.. They all sucked.. I sympathize... Even after dad and every other time.. when they'd leave she'd say that's it! but I loved and love her.. I'd never tell her don't if she fell for someone again because we're both adults and I love her... But if you suffer for that situation like I did when I was your age then you've every right to object... But as you both are grow later.. Try to understand..K? Yes but i'm just afraid she'll get upset at me. She'll start throwing stuff out the door causing a huge scene. I would move in with my dad but i'll just be worse with his depression. Right now, I'm stuck in with his damn bribing and everything. I seriously don't know what to do. If I had my choice i'd live in california where I don't have to deal wiht my parents bs.... If they both are causing this much stress.. and you are.. 17? 17 right?... I'd just stay w/the one who stays out of your life the most... Ppl need parents in their life growing up... but if they're both just negative influenceces.. Just choose the one who won't bother you the most.. Not telling you to choose the one who'll let you stay out and never check on you.. Don't want you to get hurt and disappear.. But they sound like they need to hurry and figure this out themselves and move on to more important things.. Like being there for loved ones whom's always there for them.. 3nodding ... And then theres that lovley problem. I can't choose neither of them cause I have alittle sister who likes to bug the hell out of me and theres nothing my mom does. If I stayed with my dad well he wouldn't leave me alone. Eh I hate choosing these kind of things. In that case you'll have to stay w/your little sister if that's the most important.. I raised a hand to my first step father who was built like a brick s**t house and drove tractor trailer because he tried to beat/whip my brother... Noooope! I'da killed a b***h first... Sorry.. That's how I am w/my little brother.. I was around 14 and he was only 7 then soo.. ya.. I say take care of your sister.. But do consider getting your own place nearby to take care of her.. Good luck though regardless hon.. Hard for anyone to say what's best when they're not there. Just commenting from the experience of my past..
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:16 pm
Rydia-Beck dark_shy_angel Rydia-Beck dark_shy_angel Rydia-Beck I'm sorry angie.. My mom has been married 3 times after my father.. They all sucked.. I sympathize... Even after dad and every other time.. when they'd leave she'd say that's it! but I loved and love her.. I'd never tell her don't if she fell for someone again because we're both adults and I love her... But if you suffer for that situation like I did when I was your age then you've every right to object... But as you both are grow later.. Try to understand..K? Yes but i'm just afraid she'll get upset at me. She'll start throwing stuff out the door causing a huge scene. I would move in with my dad but i'll just be worse with his depression. Right now, I'm stuck in with his damn bribing and everything. I seriously don't know what to do. If I had my choice i'd live in california where I don't have to deal wiht my parents bs.... If they both are causing this much stress.. and you are.. 17? 17 right?... I'd just stay w/the one who stays out of your life the most... Ppl need parents in their life growing up... but if they're both just negative influenceces.. Just choose the one who won't bother you the most.. Not telling you to choose the one who'll let you stay out and never check on you.. Don't want you to get hurt and disappear.. But they sound like they need to hurry and figure this out themselves and move on to more important things.. Like being there for loved ones whom's always there for them.. 3nodding ... And then theres that lovley problem. I can't choose neither of them cause I have alittle sister who likes to bug the hell out of me and theres nothing my mom does. If I stayed with my dad well he wouldn't leave me alone. Eh I hate choosing these kind of things. In that case you'll have to stay w/your little sister if that's the most important.. I raised a hand to my first step father who was built like a brick s**t house and drove tractor trailer because he tried to beat/whip my brother... Noooope! I'da killed a b***h first... Sorry.. That's how I am w/my little brother.. I was around 14 and he was only 7 then soo.. ya.. I say take care of your sister.. But do consider gettig your own place nearby to take care of her.. Good luck though regardless hon.. Hard for anyone to say what's best when they're not there. Just commenting from the experience of my past.. Yes thats what i'm gonna have to do but I have a little brother who stays with my dad I'm more worried about him. Hes 14 yrs old and hes been seriously pulling off some stupid stuff (I'm not gonna state them on here) My dad has done nothing. I'm afraid my little brother will end up in jail or dead. Gah why did my siblings have to split apart if they were together this would be a whole lot easier.
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:16 pm
Rydia-Beck dark_shy_angel Rydia-Beck dark_shy_angel Rydia-Beck I'm sorry angie.. My mom has been married 3 times after my father.. They all sucked.. I sympathize... Even after dad and every other time.. when they'd leave she'd say that's it! but I loved and love her.. I'd never tell her don't if she fell for someone again because we're both adults and I love her... But if you suffer for that situation like I did when I was your age then you've every right to object... But as you both are grow later.. Try to understand..K? Yes but i'm just afraid she'll get upset at me. She'll start throwing stuff out the door causing a huge scene. I would move in with my dad but i'll just be worse with his depression. Right now, I'm stuck in with his damn bribing and everything. I seriously don't know what to do. If I had my choice i'd live in california where I don't have to deal wiht my parents bs.... If they both are causing this much stress.. and you are.. 17? 17 right?... I'd just stay w/the one who stays out of your life the most... Ppl need parents in their life growing up... but if they're both just negative influenceces.. Just choose the one who won't bother you the most.. Not telling you to choose the one who'll let you stay out and never check on you.. Don't want you to get hurt and disappear.. But they sound like they need to hurry and figure this out themselves and move on to more important things.. Like being there for loved ones whom's always there for them.. 3nodding ... And then theres that lovley problem. I can't choose neither of them cause I have alittle sister who likes to bug the hell out of me and theres nothing my mom does. If I stayed with my dad well he wouldn't leave me alone. Eh I hate choosing these kind of things. In that case you'll have to stay w/your little sister if that's the most important.. I raised a hand to my first step father who was built like a brick s**t house and drove tractor trailer because he tried to beat/whip my brother... Noooope! I'da killed a b***h first... Sorry.. That's how I am w/my little brother.. I was around 14 and he was only 7 then soo.. ya.. I say take care of your sister.. But do consider getting your own place nearby to take care of her.. Good luck though regardless hon.. Hard for anyone to say what's best when they're not there. Just commenting from the experience of my past.. word like my how my step dad drove my sister into depression and she tried to kill herself i stood by my sister everyday after i found that out. my sister is kind and caring way way way more then i am and i did some bad bad stuff just to get him off her back even for a little bit.
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:23 pm
*lays down in ball* guess im done
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:25 pm
Well, you do have to also understand that step parent doesn't mean--awful.. although in our cases they seem to have been.. Our parents can be wrong in some instances and ppl who are strangers to us can make more sense at times.. And only my dad threatened suicide...then claimed he couldn't decide weather to shoot himself... or mom then the kids (me and brother) and then himself.. It was a "pity me" party in his case luckily.. Mom jammed her fingers in the barrel.. threw the box of bullets out one window and the gun out the other... Angie.. I don't know.. You have to be confident in your ability to protect them in order to do so.. But you are still so young.. You should be getting to have fun.. It's crap!
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:26 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:28 pm
Rydia-Beck Well, you do have to also understand that step parent doesn't mean--awful.. although in our cases they seem to have been.. Our parents can be wrong in some instances and ppl who are strangers to us can make more sense at times.. And only my dad threatened suicide...then claimed he couldn't decide weather to shoot himself... or mom then the kids (me and brother) and then himself.. It was a "pity me" party in his case luckily.. Mom jammed her fingers in the barrel.. threw the box of bullets out one window and the shells out the other... Angie.. I don't know.. You have to be confident in your ability to protect them in order to do so.. But you are still so young.. You should be getting to have fun.. It's crap! Yeah but I know the guy my mom's dating hes my dad's ex friend...I've known him for 12 yrs now.
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:29 pm
Hey Knitterz!! What's up?
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:29 pm
Rydia-Beck Well, you do have to also understand that step parent doesn't mean--awful.. although in our cases they seem to have been.. Our parents can be wrong in some instances and ppl who are strangers to us can make more sense at times.. And only my dad threatened suicide...then claimed he couldn't decide weather to shoot himself... or mom then the kids (me and brother) and then himself.. It was a "pity me" party in his case luckily.. Mom jammed her fingers in the barrel.. threw the box of bullets out one window and the shells out the other... Angie.. I don't know.. You have to be confident in your ability to protect them in order to do so.. But you are still so young.. You should be getting to have fun.. It's crap! *nods* yeah my step dad is better now so is my sister. but he broke three of my ribs when i was little because i squirted water in his face. now its different though. and my step mom my dad married shes funny but stays like out of my life in all cases pretty much. it was hard telling my dad i wasnt going to spend the summer with him but rather get a job and get money. i think he said he didnt like and he was sad but that he understood i was growing up.
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:30 pm
dark_shy_angel Rydia-Beck Well, you do have to also understand that step parent doesn't mean--awful.. although in our cases they seem to have been.. Our parents can be wrong in some instances and ppl who are strangers to us can make more sense at times.. And only my dad threatened suicide...then claimed he couldn't decide weather to shoot himself... or mom then the kids (me and brother) and then himself.. It was a "pity me" party in his case luckily.. Mom jammed her fingers in the barrel.. threw the box of bullets out one window and the shells out the other... Angie.. I don't know.. You have to be confident in your ability to protect them in order to do so.. But you are still so young.. You should be getting to have fun.. It's crap! Yeah but I know the guy my mom's dating hes my dad's ex friend...I've known him for 12 yrs now. *hugs* I don't know hon.. Keep me updated.. Pm me anytime for just someone to listen.. heart
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:31 pm
ok i got chocolate and grahm crackers who brought the marshmellows? *starts making a fire*
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Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 9:33 pm
Rydia-Beck dark_shy_angel Rydia-Beck Well, you do have to also understand that step parent doesn't mean--awful.. although in our cases they seem to have been.. Our parents can be wrong in some instances and ppl who are strangers to us can make more sense at times.. And only my dad threatened suicide...then claimed he couldn't decide weather to shoot himself... or mom then the kids (me and brother) and then himself.. It was a "pity me" party in his case luckily.. Mom jammed her fingers in the barrel.. threw the box of bullets out one window and the shells out the other... Angie.. I don't know.. You have to be confident in your ability to protect them in order to do so.. But you are still so young.. You should be getting to have fun.. It's crap! Yeah but I know the guy my mom's dating hes my dad's ex friend...I've known him for 12 yrs now. *hugs* I don't know hon.. Keep me updated.. Pm me anytime for just someone to listen.. heart Thanks Hun *hugs you tightly* and I will try well I need to log so night everyone....... *licks your cheek and huggles everyone else*
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