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 Posted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 6:06 pm
As I tell my mom a lot of the time: you can't have peace without war. War is a constant thing, whether it be within ourselves or rippling through an impovershed nation. There are always two sides to one coin.
Wanting to be nutured is a typical human emotion. Also being hurt and angry is the natural effect one experiences from a betrayal. It all depends on which road you yourself want to take. You can hold a grudge and have everyone ignore you because you're set on making that person feel bad. Or: you can go on with your life because by being happy, it shows you've put the whole thing behind you and can move on.
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Posted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 6:30 pm
That's exactly what I'm saying. I don't want to name and shame because I'm not that kinda person. I'd prefer to just walk away and never to see them again than name and shame and cause a big fuss. I want him to remember what he's lost of me nicely rather that the big b.i.t.c.h word. I want to be happy but it's take a while for it to sink in. I don't want to hurt the girl no matter what happen's. I want to tell her as it's only fair on her but I don't want to as it will feel as if I'm betraying myself.
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Posted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 7:00 pm
To be frank and cliche with you, you need to be satisfied knowing that your old love is happy with another girl. To see him happy will give you the reassurance he didn't leave for some sort of hooker or whatever.
I wouldn't know, I don't know the whole sitaution and I'm not the one who it happened to.
As myself, I would just move on and not care about it anymore. To think about it would drag me down and cause it to become a distraction among the daily things in my life.
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Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2009 5:49 am
True biggrin Well thank's alot Chexed Nut smile Your honest oppinion is very true and I will smile smile I wanna thank you and Sanzoskitsune and another unamed Gaian for helping someone they didn't know get though a hard time.
Love Tiesel x
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Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 4:57 am
Oh, tosh! It's not a problem. :3 Sanzo and I are whores for talking -- if we can help anyone and that equals talking? Yeah. We're all over it. >3
Hope you get better~ heart
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Posted: Sun Jan 18, 2009 6:29 am
I'm totally fine now thankie's smile
If you knew anyone on here who knew me personally...
They would ask you to buy me glue and put it in a lipgloss tube razz
I <3 to talk smile
Thank's for reading what I said and Replying smile smile
I really appreciated it!!
I'm cool now.
The funny thing was that he admitted what he did with no fuss.
Unfortunately I can't physically hate someone for more than about 15-20 minutes.
So I pretty much forgave him straight off.
But ya know.
I think it would be best if he stayed with the other Lady to be fair.
Why smash another person's heart?!
She doesn't know anyway's and I'm not telling her so it would be cool.
I just hope she doesn't find out.
I don't wanna be blamed for a broken relationship.
I'm just trying to be nice,
You know what I mean?
T x
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Posted: Sun Jan 18, 2009 9:41 pm
*Runs around, hyped on endorphins.* You have no idea what happened~ *Sings in a sing-song voice.* heart whee
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Posted: Sun Jan 18, 2009 9:43 pm
You and Arc finally made the beast with two backs? were accepted by your respective parents?
...I'm sorry, I couldn't help myself. Seriously, though, what has you so buzzed?
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Posted: Sun Jan 18, 2009 9:47 pm
You've got me curious too Chex, what happened? What what what tell me!!!
@Tiesel this may be really late but I'm glad you're getting over this so easily and that you're doing good. And whatever happens with him happens, you have a really good attitude and that is awesome.
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Posted: Mon Jan 19, 2009 7:22 am
I just made special time for the two of us via parental request. They said they trusted me and of all places we went to make-out was my school.
Nice, huh? Oh. Well. The school'll just have more special memories. heart
Oh. And Dean wants to know if you guys knew he was staying at my house and only... *Counts.* 10 feet away.
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Posted: Mon Jan 19, 2009 9:52 am
@ Sanzo:::
Well thank-you very much!!
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I think that I am doing okay
smile
Well I know I am doing good
smile
This happened to me before and I totally flipped over the edge
sad
But what's the point in ruining a perfectly good relationship with some petty banter?
She'd be really upset and I would feel bad,
I don't know her but the guy said that she's pretty cool!
smile
I just hope that he doesn't do it to her again?
That would really be quite silly!!
But as far as I'm concerned,
The way he talk's about her to me,
Make's me feel that she is the right girl for him
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If I tell her then it's gonna drag me back in and make me cry all over again.
So to wrap up the conclusion of this mess::
No matter what he's said or done,
I'm going to do what's right.
For her and for me!
@Chex:: That sound's pretty cool smile
I'm happy for you smile
It's nice see that there's something happening that's lovey dovey on the lovey dovey thread
razz
smile
xxx
T
x
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 5:04 am
*Clings and rubs her face into Arc's sweater.* God. My room smells like him. I feel the pull in my muscles and the heaviness inside my chest right now. All I want to do is cuddle up in my bed with his sweater and fall asleep next to it instead of going to school.
*Sighs.* So starts the sad expressions and ship loads of sighing. Not to mention those heartfelt text messages.
I need a hug.
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 9:25 am
I am an old ATG member =]*Flings all Lovable ATG members at Chex*
FEEL THE HUGLOVE!Click here for the ATG Wiki!
Click here to PM Me regarding ATG.
I am not a Mod but I am a regular and will always answer if you ask =]
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 9:59 am
*slowly backs away* o.O
Hahaha.
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Jafthasleftthebuilding Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 10:52 am
Jaft *slowly backs away* o.O Hahaha. I am an old ATG member =]
Sorry Jaft you were the first person I threw =DClick here for the ATG Wiki!
Click here to PM Me regarding ATG.
I am not a Mod but I am a regular and will always answer if you ask =]
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