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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 11:02 am
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 11:07 am
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Hiicomo It's always good to express your feelings. ^^ There's someone I know, that broke up with her boyfriend because she felt as though he didn't care enough, when in reality, he cared a lot more than she knew. Rejection is scary, of course! It's like getting up on stage and singing. Much easier in your head than the actual thing. And yeah...the whole friend thing is complicated. It's hard to have a friendship again if things go wrong and...well, you never quite feel the same, do you? But yes. Chances are there to be taken, otherwise you won't know what could have happened.
yeah thats what i think also. the problems become infintly complex when trying to deal with a crush on a friend. i usually tend to stay quiet and if they like me they can say... but i tent do wait till i know it will be ok to say before doing so. However it does mean i am emotionally screwed as im always afraid of what to say and when lol.
the other problem i have is im horrably self concious so i constantly worry and end up getting into horrable panics.
im better these days though, it used to be terrable, now im able to voice feelings better. still doesnt help in some situations though.
-w0w that was a ramble and a half, i dont even think that made sense?
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 11:16 am
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 11:27 am
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 11:41 am
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FleshandBlood Omochii Lol. Well, I understood it fine, no worries. I think part of what makes crushing on a friend so complex is the fact that you don't quite know where that friendship line ends and you step into the other zone. ^^;; What to say and when...well, I always find just being honest and doing it spontaneously is the best. After all, there might never be a right time, place, or even the right thing to say in some situations! biggrin i understand what your saying. still, i value my friendships and stuff with people over anything else practically. to loose any of that to a crush would hurt a lot. still, spontanious is good in some situations. it just needs approaching more carefully with friends i feel. *Nodnod* I understand and yes, that's another thing that makes it so complex. It's hard to measure exactly how much you crush on someone...at least, that's what I've thought anyway ^^;;
I agree though. With friends [especially close ones] a little more care would probably do a lot of good, as spontaneous outbursts can most probably lead to disastrous consequences.
O_O;;
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 4:17 pm
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 10:23 pm
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 10:27 pm
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 10:27 pm
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 4:24 am
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 4:43 pm
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 4:58 pm
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 5:05 pm
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 5:09 pm
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 5:15 pm
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