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 Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:05 pm
I don't trust his intentions. I mean, he seems nice enough, and he used to give me rides to school before I started working there, but... sometimes, especially when I see him talking to this one other girl, I get this creepy feeling. He has been rather persistant.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:06 pm
*shakes the Genie bottle, because they hate when you do that*
Honestly Indy tell the guy you wouldn't be comfortable going over to his house without your boyfriend present. That generally gets them to leave you alone, unless he knows you don't have a boyfriend...than it kinda falls on it's face. But sometimes it still drives the point home that you don't like him or want to be at his house alone with him.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:08 pm
Yeah Indy, if you don't trust someone's intentions don't do anything *has made the mistake before because she's known for instantly thinking someone has bad intentions*
Seriously though, Ladi gavve the best advice I've ever read on the topic.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:10 pm
He never fails to mention that his family isn't home. sweatdrop And it's common knowledge that I'm single. They don't know about my "weekend event" boy, and he doesn't really count. I'm not sure how to procede.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:11 pm
Just say you woul;dn't feel comfortable alone. THat's really the only thing I can tell you.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:15 pm
Yeah that "My parents aren't around" is usually a clear indicator if you come over he is going to force himself on you. Which means things are sounding like they are going in a way you wouldn't be comfortable with.
Over just say flat out you don't like him and you're NEVER going to sleep with him, EVER, EVER, EVER.
Or you could use an "killer line" such as "I like you as a brother." or "We will always be friends right?" or my personal favorite, "You are just like one of my very best female friends!"
Those are usually clues (even to dense men) that they are never getting anywhere with you, EVER.
PS Indy Went red so I felt the need to do so as well. *does the mimic dance*
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:27 pm
*dancing the "perfect cast" from A Goofy Movie* Sup y'all.... *continues to dance...*
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:27 pm
LadiSilverfox PS Indy Went red so I felt the need to do so as well. *does the mimic dance* Eh? I went red? But yeah, talking about how he would be home New Year's Eve, asking if I drank and if so, what... I managed to keep up my ditz act for a while, but even I can't act oblivious forever (yes, it sometimes is an act). I have little doubt of his intentions. I'm just too nice of a person to give a straight-out "no". That's what got me into trouble with my last (and only sweatdrop ) relationship.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:27 pm
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:29 pm
Baaaack. blaugh
And you're still looking at me, Celes. cry
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:29 pm
*gets glomped* Rai-chan, just tell him "no" straight out... guys don't get it unless you tell them... and some guys just don't get it...
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:29 pm
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:30 pm
*still hiding behind Ladi* Not quite sure what you mean, Eien....
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:30 pm
Indigo Project LadiSilverfox PS Indy Went red so I felt the need to do so as well. *does the mimic dance* Eh? I went red? But yeah, talking about how he would be home New Year's Eve, asking if I drank and if so, what... I managed to keep up my ditz act for a while, but even I can't act oblivious forever (yes, it sometimes is an act). I have little doubt of his intentions. I'm just too nice of a person to give a straight-out "no". That's what got me into trouble with my last (and only sweatdrop ) relationship.
You don't have to be mean about it, you just have to be clear.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:30 pm
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