THE ANGST ZONE (Use this, for the love of internetz! ><)

[Indigo Project]

La Belle Isolde

Is it a personal space thing or something?

Or is it the irrational female fears that I also deal with in the way of being paranoid of... well... harassment/assault?

The second is probably closer to the mark.  

[Sanzoskitsune]

I'm still tempted to ask him to give me one of those schiatzu (sp?) massages, they sound SO relaxing  

[Trish the Stalker]

If I might ask, Indy, do you want to get over it?

If so I can give tips and some information how I deal(t) with it.  

[NeoChibi-Chan]

Hello *waves*

I come to the club for some advice...

Situation:
-You are a guy or girl.
-You are in bed with someone that you love but you are unsure how they feel about you.
-They finally say I love you but they also say they love another guy/girl.

Should I feel hurt or happy that they were honest with me? I also know for a fact that other person doesn't like them... And I seem to be happy with the fact I was in bed with him.

But does he sound like an a*****e in your opinion.  

[Trish the Stalker]

That depends on whether or not he was sincere when he said he loved you. Either way saying that he loved someone else will probably make you feel icky inside unless you talk more about exactly what that means...

I myself just wandered in here to whine about how much I miss my boyfriend... it's gonna be a little while yet before I get to see him again and it makes me sad. Its not like he's just away either, I'm living in his/our house and he's not here emo

Any tips on not feeling like crap for the next week?  

[The-Mut-Cat]

La Belle Isolde

That depends on whether or not he was sincere when he said he loved you. Either way saying that he loved someone else will probably make you feel icky inside unless you talk more about exactly what that means...

I myself just wandered in here to whine about how much I miss my boyfriend... it's gonna be a little while yet before I get to see him again and it makes me sad. Its not like he's just away either, I'm living in his/our house and he's not here emo

Any tips on not feeling like crap for the next week?

I have but one, and that is to fantasize about what you'll do to him when he gets there wink

That's how I coped wiht not being around mine...  

[The-Mut-Cat]

NeoChibi-Chan

Hello *waves*

I come to the club for some advice...

Situation:
-You are a guy or girl.
-You are in bed with someone that you love but you are unsure how they feel about you.
-They finally say I love you but they also say they love another guy/girl.

Should I feel hurt or happy that they were honest with me? I also know for a fact that other person doesn't like them... And I seem to be happy with the fact I was in bed with him.

But does he sound like an a*****e in your opinion.

Yes. He could either be using you, or polyamorous (if so he shouldn't have waited until AFTERWARDS to tell you...

if you're not ok with it, how will that relationship work?  

[Trish the Stalker]

The-Mut-Cat

La Belle Isolde

That depends on whether or not he was sincere when he said he loved you. Either way saying that he loved someone else will probably make you feel icky inside unless you talk more about exactly what that means...

I myself just wandered in here to whine about how much I miss my boyfriend... it's gonna be a little while yet before I get to see him again and it makes me sad. Its not like he's just away either, I'm living in his/our house and he's not here emo

Any tips on not feeling like crap for the next week?

I have but one, and that is to fantasize about what you'll do to him when he gets there wink

That's how I coped wiht not being around mine...

I'm already doing that, it's not enough, lol. I get lonely too easily.  

[Indigo Project]

I'm afraid that eveerything I touch will eventually fall apart. Despite all of my careful planning, best intentions, greatest efforts, I can't get anything right in the end.

Look at me. Heaviest and brokest I have ever been in my life. Grades that I know I'll be ashamed to show my parents, even though I only have a feeling as to what they'll look like.

My stomach is in knots, my eyes are wet, and I feel as though I have an enormouse weight pressing down on me.

I feel almost empty.  

[The-Mut-Cat]

Indigo Project

I'm afraid that eveerything I touch will eventually fall apart. Despite all of my careful planning, best intentions, greatest efforts, I can't get anything right in the end.

Look at me. Heaviest and brokest I have ever been in my life. Grades that I know I'll be ashamed to show my parents, even though I only have a feeling as to what they'll look like.

My stomach is in knots, my eyes are wet, and I feel as though I have an enormouse weight pressing down on me.

I feel almost empty.

*hug*

I just got out of a nastey situation, so my mind is a little too frazzled to offer good words...

but *hug!*  

[Slim95]

Indigo Project

I'm afraid that eveerything I touch will eventually fall apart. Despite all of my careful planning, best intentions, greatest efforts, I can't get anything right in the end.

Look at me. Heaviest and brokest I have ever been in my life. Grades that I know I'll be ashamed to show my parents, even though I only have a feeling as to what they'll look like.

My stomach is in knots, my eyes are wet, and I feel as though I have an enormouse weight pressing down on me.

I feel almost empty.

*hugz* gonk heart (I'm terrible with the nice words and advice and such, but I wanna say somethin' REALLY bad....even if it comes out sounding like some video game monologue)

Do not fear, Indy! There's ALWAYS a light at the end of the tunnel, you just have to find your way to it! I know you're feeling like crud, but you have to be happy about the little things, grit your teeth, and pick yourself back up. The best thing to do right now is to find the root of your problems, then burn it or maul it or dispose of it in any way you see fit. Things are never over. And I know you've worked hard, very hard, with these problems, but there's only one thing you can do to make them better, and that's to keep working. Everything you touch won't crumble forever, because when something falls apart, there's always an opportunity to rebuild it.  

[Indigo Project]

I hate this. Every time I try to feel happy for someone near me, my own selfishness gets in the way. These goddamn hormones kep throwing me off.

s**t. I hate crying.  

[Lifes Little Conflict]

Indigo Project

I hate this. Every time I try to feel happy for someone near me, my own selfishness gets in the way. These goddamn hormones kep throwing me off.

s**t. I hate crying.

*hugs Indy* I know what you mean. gonk  

[Red Glacier]

Indigo Project

I hate this. Every time I try to feel happy for someone near me, my own selfishness gets in the way. These goddamn hormones kep throwing me off.

s**t. I hate crying.

is it things you say?  

[Indigo Project]

No, Viral, for the most part it's internal. I think thoughts I shouldn't think, then feel bad for thinking them.

I want to throw a tantrum and chuck things at the wall, but I don't have the energy, thus I throw one inside and cry.