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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 9:56 pm
Firstly I know she'll lie about it, Sanzo-san. Secondly... it's hella hard for a child to tell their parents that they're doing something wrong. Thirdly, I'm not fully sure yet. I'm just guessing this because I've been seeing some casino transactions on my credit card that I'm letting my mom use to pay off an emergency car payment.
I know it was stupid to give her my card... but she's my mum.
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 9:58 pm
You know hun, she may be your mom but that doesn't give her the right to use your credit card. I mean yeah you can help her with an emergency and stuff since she is your mom but I don't think handing over your credit card is necessary and if she IS using YOUR money to gamble then you do need to talk to her about that
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:00 pm
I'll do that when I get the chance. I know it's necessary but one can't deny that it's hard to tell a parent that they're doing something wrong.
...especially when one was raised fairly traditionally like myself what with the parents always right and whatnot...
I'll get over it and muster some courage to talk to her though.
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:03 pm
I don't think you should just come out and say "Mom you're doing something bad and need to stop" cause well... even I wouldn't do that sweatdrop probably more like "Mom I'm worried about you and that perhaps you're gambling when you shouldn't be." And you know go from there. Cause this is affecting you too
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:04 pm
Mhm... I'll ask for my father's advice too. He usually kept the finances intact before he went to the Philippines to start a business there.
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:06 pm
Sanzoskitsune maybe you should have a talk with her Lin? It might be of some help @Indigo, I have my fingers crossed, the thing that irks me the most is my DAD actually said I could go out on weekends but my mom just pretty much raised it to I can't go out at all, but I'm not gonna argue Now that's messed up.
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:07 pm
That sounds like a good idea Lin 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:10 pm
Indigo Project Sanzoskitsune maybe you should have a talk with her Lin? It might be of some help @Indigo, I have my fingers crossed, the thing that irks me the most is my DAD actually said I could go out on weekends but my mom just pretty much raised it to I can't go out at all, but I'm not gonna argue Now that's messed up. yeah it is, I can't argue with her but it pisses me off cause my dad actually said the words "you can go out on weekends with your friends but during the week I want you at home studying" Besides its not like I'm studying on weekend ANYWAY
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:14 pm
Heehee... before I go, here's a quiz that I found a few days ago on del.icio.us. The results are quite interesting. Imagini VisualDNA
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:17 pm
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:23 pm
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:27 pm
*takes quiz* I'm off too. Need sleep. G'night!
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:28 pm
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:42 pm
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:47 pm
I don't know whether to laugh at that or be saddened by it xp
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