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Aubrey of the sliver line
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Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 1:08 pm
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Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 5:28 pm
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Aubrey of the sliver line
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Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 8:05 am
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Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 5:10 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 7:40 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 8:22 pm
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Aubrey of the sliver line
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 4:45 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 10:18 pm
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ok, let's do this in order...
--aubrey::"I'd much rather be able to tell her to her face than have her read it off some paper."
nicely said. i totally agree. i'd rather do 'confrontations' or what have you over any other platonic/aesthetic communication ( hate specially when people try to online-volley argue). seeing each other's reactions validates unsaid emotions, hence, establishing better judgment. zebra and gaze are right. wait a while for your emotions to mature. when you say your i love you's, it has to be meant. many people out there just throw it around coz they feel a strong emotion they confuse w/ love..or they feel like they have to say it when in an intimate relationship. using it w/ little discretion lessens the value of that admittance, you know? it's like calling everyone your bestfriend- how many 'bestfriends are there? (i only point it out coz it actually happened to me). i admit, though, sometimes love doesn't need a given time. it's really up to you to know what love is. you could fall inlove for the first time and know it's real. or, get into several trial ones to know the real thing. but you alone know how you feel.
--gaze:: "I hate to say, but after 11 days of dating, I'm pretty sure saying that you love someone, after so little time, will be perceived not only as creepy, but make you look like an idiot.
Now if y'all stay together for like a year. Then talk about love. c.c;"
yea, that'll weird out the girl by saying it too soon. she'll either say it back coz she feels it's normal to do it or she'll be creeped out by your..ahm..confused candor? like i said, time doesn't matter in certain instances. i've seen couples where a year doesn't do much feelings-wise, but stay together for security reasons. but gaze has a point...if it's been long enough that you've been together and you haven't changed in feelings...then.....
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Posted: Thu Oct 25, 2007 12:11 am
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Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 2:09 pm
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