|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 9:36 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 7:10 am
|
|
|
|
meleny7 I miss my friend. im a little teary right now. i know its stupid but still. ever since i started college i was only able to hang out with one of my best friends on weekends. were like sisters, she use to come to my house every day. we use to have soo much fun. i was ok with it since we would hang out on weekends. but then she stopped coming, she started doing stuff for the school, and hanging out with her other friend, even when shes doing absolutely nothing she doesnt even try to communicate with me . we use to talk on the phone and online all the time. and now she doesnt even call, or visit. i have to call her to check if shes ok. its like she doesnt give a..damn about me anymore. its like ive been replaced. so i put myself as invisible on yahoo, and i just decided that im not going to even try to keep our friendship. whats the point if she doesnt care anymore. although it hurts like hell and shes a really close friend. I get the picture. so im losing her slowly and soon ill loser for life. my other best friends thats in another state keeps in touch with me more than she does. lets see if she cares to show up for my b-day crying
I think you need to tell her how you feel. maybe in an email. I met my best friend when we were in 2nd grade. 2nd grade! and now we are both 36 years old and we are still best friends, still keep up with eachother, even tho I'm now in TN and she's still up in NYC (where I come from). the key to any deep and long lasting relationship is communication. not just the 'keeping in touch' type of communication, but the open communication relaying ones feelings. I've got a life and family of my own now, with a job and responsibilities, and so does she.. so its not always easy to remember to keep up with eachother. but even if i dont hear from her for 3 or even 6 months.. I still know she's there. the years have made our relationship very deep and very special.
now not all friendships can turn out like mine. I think it's a rare thing to find. but you never know, and you will never know unless you openly communicate with the other person. remind her of your birthday and see what happens. if she doesnt remember when the time comes, then tell her how you are feeling.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 12:06 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 12:57 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 4:16 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 1:28 am
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 5:42 am
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 7:35 am
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 6:59 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2007 3:10 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2007 8:15 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 8:30 am
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 10:26 am
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|