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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 5:37 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 5:49 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 5:50 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 5:50 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 5:53 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 6:09 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 7:48 pm
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Artanus It's hard to sympathize when he's not doing anything for himself. And he has nothing. He won't answer if anyone asks him what he wants to do. He has no ambition. I know he has to hit rock bottom to really see, but I'm afraid he won't get back up. I do stay out of it. I'm closest one too him in this family, and it'd be the last straw on his back if I were to make him feel alienated too. (Bed. Talk in the morning)
He's not on drugs is he??
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:49 pm
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ah.
i went through this same thing your brother's going through.
he's got college depression. 3nodding happens every day, and its uber-common.
he needs to see the school shrink and talk to someone removed from the situation.
also, tell su madre that he's probably going through s**t, its not just that he's lazy and wants to d**k around. 3nodding
when i first went to college, i gained 40 pounds, failed every class but one ((band rofl )), lost touch with all of my friends, stopped going to classes, became all introverted ((which is BEYOND strange for me)) and ended up spending hour after hour online in the school's AMAZING library.
i felt like no one cared. like i'd lost touch with everyone i loved. i was tired all the time, i didn't want to see anyone, i felt betrayed by my hs friends for them having adventures when i wasn't there ((which is dumb, but its what happened)). THEN i felt guilty cause there i was, WASTING my time @ college and all my daddy's lovely money. crying
i had to end up leaving school and just living life for a while. then i came back and i was fine because i KNEW who i was and didn't feel lost all the time.
try to talk to your brother & if you want to show him this post, go for it.
people need to know that its HARD that first year! there's all this pressure on you to succeed ((omg, i heard "you're so BRIGHT! you're going to go so FAR!" a billion times and it created this insane fear of failure)) and there's almost no support system @ school. its so different from hs, and yes, most of its different in a GOOD way, but the one-on-one teacher/student relationships that are possible in hs aren't @ college ((@ least not @ first)).
it just sucks. it sucks in a major way.
he needs support. NOT a kick in the pants, but SUPPORT.
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Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 4:48 am
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Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 7:38 am
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