y must we fight

[smile_in_your_sleep101]

me and my girl love esacother but most of the time we talk its always fighting, and on top of that im joining the army sxo i don't think that will help the relationship.

any suggestions for my problem  

[God-Raped-Me]

How about you worry less about your petty problems and a bit more on your English eh?

 

[124-C]

Relationships are tough work, Smile. It's all about communication, trust, and compromise. My suggestion? Be a whore.

God-Raped-Me

Why don't you worry less about your petty problems and a bit more about your English, eh?

While his language skills definitely could be improved, I fail to see how your post is relevant to the topic at hand.  

[Shram]

124-C

Relationships are tough work, Smile. It's all about communication, trust, and compromise. My suggestion? Be a whore.

God-Raped-Me

Why don't you worry less about your petty problems and a bit more about your English, eh?

While his language skills definitely could be improved, I fail to see how your post is relevant to the topic at hand.

I am an old ATG member =]


It isn't but there is no point responding to no information.
"we argue and I am leaving, what do I do?"
We don't ******** know as its your girl, you know her best not us.

Click here to PM Me regarding ATG.
I am not a Mod but I am a regular and will always answer if you ask =]

 

[God-Raped-Me]

My post is plenty relevant. I'm telling him that relationships shouldn't be his biggest worry right now. I don't understand how you didn't get that out of what I said.

 

[YukiOfTheMightnightHour]

3nodding Communication is key! 3nodding  

[yshaHeartElmo]

In a relationship, there's always a temptation..
If there's no temptation, then what's relationship for?
Just always be strong because if you give up. It only means that your love is not long enough or your not for each other.
Talk about YOUR problems and try to solve it.


smile smile smile  

[shiny dollar]

Take her on a romantic date and at the right moment ask what the problem is.
Your a guy so there's no guarantee that you'll be able to handle the situation well if she gets upset but just try and keep your head cool.  

[TieselGirl09]

Well from what I've read. There is 2 things you can do.

1) Either you or your girlfriend have something going on. E.g. You have something on your mind or something important going on in your life and the best thing to do is to sit down with each other and talk it out. If you start to feel angry then think ''Is this worth getting angry over'' When I get angry I always calm down within 15 minutes because there is no point in arguments. They only upset and hurt people. So the best thing to do if your feeling angry with the way the conversation is going is to just tell her your feeling angry and and ask her to change the conversation.
If she starts getting angry or upset just listen to her and you'll find out whats wrong with her in the end.
If you love her then you will find a way to work it out eventually and if she loves you then she'll tell you whats wrong.


OR


2) Could the problem be that you love each other but your not right for each other. If your just angry at each other all the time and thats all you do then it's not worth it. Me and my ex loved each other dearly but we had to split up in the end cause we never stopped arguing and I don't know why. I still care about him alot still. But if this is the case, then why don't you just be friends and see how that goes. Go your seperate ways and if in a few months you still love her and she loves you then you can always get back together and try again.




Hope that help's.
Tiesel x