sad I agree with a couple of the others; think about all the fun times you had. It's not perfect, it'll still feel overwhelming, but it'll help.
Posted: Wed Apr 22, 2009 9:12 am
Everyone experiences deaths of those close to them in different ways. And I know the last thing I wanted to hear was "I know what it's like" but nevertheless...
I know I'll never get over my dad's death fully. But I live with it and can grow strong from it, remembering all the fun we had.
In time, I hope you are where I am. But take it at your pace.
During times of great pain, having someone to talk to and finding the funny in life to laugh at helped me get through the tough times.
Be well.
Posted: Wed Apr 22, 2009 10:52 am
-hugs- Poor Sephy
Think of the good times you had with him, try not to dwell on what could've happened. Spend time with those who're supportive and if you need to, cry a bit.
Really sorry to hear this Seph, my thoughts are with you.
Posted: Wed Apr 22, 2009 8:08 pm
I'm very sorry for your loss.
My father died earlier this year. I'm still not really sure what to do. I am not sure there really is anything you can do.
I wish I could think of something worthwhile to say. : (
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Posted: Thu Apr 23, 2009 4:22 am
My condolences for your lose hon. That can not be easy. Wish there was a way to pass a hug through the computer screen so you can have an actual shoulder to cry on.
*hugs anyways*
I wish there were more things I can say, but I know right about now you feel pretty freking heart wrenched around. I just kind of wish there was a good way to ease the pain.
Just remember you father for all the good things he's done.