I need some advice/a place to vent.

[The Mad Land Monarch]

So, back in February, I found someone through this guild who I could call my first girlfriend, purely online due to distance but a girlfriend nonetheless. And, it was good for a while. But, after that while, communication started dwindling down here and there. Now, it has been a whole month with no contact. During this past month I've tried every line of communication we have between the two of us, several times, and have gotten nothing. I am at a loss. I don't know what to do. This is my first relationship and I don't know what I can do to even see if it still is a relationship. Can anyone here help me?


This section is a message for her. I'm going to share this post to her and pray that she sees this soon.

I love you. I miss you. I want to talk to you soon. But please know that I feel hurt, alone, and very, very afraid. I know that these feelings were probably caused by accident, but I wanted you to know that this is how I'm feeling.  

[AvalonIII]

The Mad Land Monarch

So, back in February, I found someone through this guild who I could call my first girlfriend, purely online due to distance but a girlfriend nonetheless. And, it was good for a while. But, after that while, communication started dwindling down here and there. Now, it has been a whole month with no contact. During this past month I've tried every line of communication we have between the two of us, several times, and have gotten nothing. I am at a loss. I don't know what to do. This is my first relationship and I don't know what I can do to even see if it still is a relationship. Can anyone here help me?


This section is a message for her. I'm going to share this post to her and pray that she sees this soon.

I love you. I miss you. I want to talk to you soon. But please know that I feel hurt, alone, and very, very afraid. I know that these feelings were probably caused by accident, but I wanted you to know that this is how I'm feeling.

HI there, really sorry you're going through this been there myself. I hate to say it but it's possible she has given up on you and deserted. I say give her another month and if no contact then let it go. I know you'll blame yourself, asking yourself if maybe you did something wrong. You didn't, she just wasn't interested and she didn't have the courage to tell you. You'll get through this.  

[Alter729]

The Mad Land Monarch

So, back in February, I found someone through this guild who I could call my first girlfriend, purely online due to distance but a girlfriend nonetheless. And, it was good for a while. But, after that while, communication started dwindling down here and there. Now, it has been a whole month with no contact. During this past month I've tried every line of communication we have between the two of us, several times, and have gotten nothing. I am at a loss. I don't know what to do. This is my first relationship and I don't know what I can do to even see if it still is a relationship. Can anyone here help me?


This section is a message for her. I'm going to share this post to her and pray that she sees this soon.

I love you. I miss you. I want to talk to you soon. But please know that I feel hurt, alone, and very, very afraid. I know that these feelings were probably caused by accident, but I wanted you to know that this is how I'm feeling.

She left you without even telling you. That means you are a free man. Don't give me a sob story but she was the love of my life crap because if she was she wouldn't have left you. It's not your fault it's hers. She left you alone with a broken heart and didn't even care. So you know what you should do. Go hang out with your friends. Find a different person and just take it slow.  

[dead account dead btw]

D'awww....
Poor guy > w <  

[xGreyWulfx]

Dang! You people are rough with the advice. very harsh!
Long distance relationships, almost never work. Given how you seem to be affectionate and what not, its ok to be. Wondering why? how? what if's isnt going to do you any good what so ever. I'm not saying give up, but keep it open just in case she does reply or tries to get into contact with you. Right now what you need is to get out into the world and experience all its marvels, trust me! meaning Make friends, experience going out and what not. im sure you've heard this cliche sentence before but there are plenty of women out there.
You have to understand that its a process and patience is absolutely required.
Distract yourself, do what makes you happy and don't say " She made me happy" because i wont accept that as an answer.