SuicidalSkittles
Honestly, if you can afford not working for those 13 weeks, and cut a few things here and there, I'd do it. I'd do it in a heartbeat.
"Afford" is a difficult to evaluate condition...
Because yes, I can afford it. As in, I can probably break even between my Etsy shop and mega-part-time job (it's like ten hours a week, tops, usually more like five), because I don't spend much on food and the like, and Neil's job can easily take care of the rest of the bills. So most likely taking 13 weeks off wouldn't even require me to dip into currently accrued savings.
Buuut it comes at an "opportunity cost" that I am trying to save money for a home loan and surrogacy. If I work, then I'm closer to those goals. Can I "afford" to lose that progress?