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Posted: Fri Jun 30, 2006 2:59 pm
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Well, it would take forever and a day to explain my situation. So to sum it up, My parents were fighting for custody of my sister and I, my mom asked my gramma to get her a lawyer my gramma got the lawyer for herself and now we're living with the b***h.
So three years later, supposedly my dad hasn't done what he was supposed to do by the courts. He did classes [[that he didn't need to do]] but they were the wrong ones, so he can't visit us at all, which pisses me off. My mom can visit whenever she wants though and my gramma doesn't even bug HER about paying child support, but she bugs my dad which is unfair. She only does that cuz my mom is her daughter. My mom can visit whenever she pleases if she has the money. Sometimes my gramma even pays for her to come here.
Well, my dad's mom's husband died aka our grandpa. And so we wanted to go to the funeral with our dad. He's our GRANDFATHER for christ's sake.
But our "guardian at litem" or w/e said that our gramma should not let us go. I don't know how that b***h thinks she can tell us what to do.
We didn't go. evil
But now.. My daddy is supposed to be comin here on July 19. Now Sharon[[guardian at litem]] doesn't know this. My gramma don't know this. Yet.
But Sharon also probably forgot that in her e-mail she said he could come on a supervised visit on his way back from Alabama. My dad doesn't know that Sharon HAS to be here. I told him. But he doesn't wanna pay for her to come.
So basically, I think this is gonna be a disaster and my dad is gonna come for nuthin. What should I do? a) Tell my dad not to come unless we call Sharon or e-mail her and get her to come as well. b) MURDER MY GRAMMA c) Ask Sharon if it's okay if my mom is here to supervise cuz she's comin and if not, kill her. d) MUDER SHARON e) other suggestions
Status on likeing of these people:
Mom - heart Dad - heart heart Gramma - evil scream Sharon - scream evil
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 5:22 pm
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 4:15 am
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 10:16 pm
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 2:11 am
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burning_eyes wow, the awkward thing was that I was in the same boat as you from like 5-12 years old *my grandma wasn't involved though and I wasn't adopted* ninja
the best thing to do in this situation is more or less wait things out if that's the case, you can't do much on it right now since your parentals will contradict one another's views only to make you wait longer for a worser time
I suggest that you just let the lady come with you, use the supervision as a loophole and make it so that she's around but not interfering in your endeavors, it's obvious you love your dad enough to kill people but not enough to see him...
by all means, try to maintain contact even if it's by email, by phone, by snailmail (letters) by rock and chisel...ANYTHING, a situation as bad as this can be mentally scarring, at any age pretty much (I should know, I dealt with it for about 7 to ? years...3 mental institutions, 4 times going to them, 1 correctional school etc.)
if your dad can, I'm sure he'll change his mind anyway
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