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Posted: Fri Nov 24, 2006 2:29 am
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Well, here is the situation. I'm a 12th grader, and i have a girlfriend that is a freshmen. I'm dating her for probably a month or so now. Im 17, and she is 14, and she's not suppose to date. Now i deeply love her, and i'm her world. She was really depressed before meeting me and our marching band, and she's really happy. We were talking today, and i told her im afraid to mess up and not only leave her, but cheat on her as well.She said that even if i did cheat on her, she wouldnt want me to leave, and that without me she would be dead, which means she is suicidle. I'm a virgin and all, but there is another girl who i could see myself with, she is a year younger then me, and i could have had sex with her WHILE going out with my girlfriend now...and almost did till the point i though that my girlfriend means more to me then what i thought she did!
Now, the point of this little rant, was to just let some light in on you folks, the question i have is, should i be staying ith my girlfriend, who i love dearly and all, even though i never see her out of school cus she isnt suppose to be dating. Or should i leave her now, and cause less hurt, i mean, im not saying i want to leave her, but i really dont want to hurt her more and be a reason she dies or something. i mean, i have no problem waiting for her 3 years after i graduate, no problem with that at all, but im just scared i'll mess up from temptation....
Please help me.
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Posted: Sat Nov 25, 2006 9:21 pm
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Posted: Sat Nov 25, 2006 10:00 pm
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Posted: Mon Nov 27, 2006 1:03 pm
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honestly, don't go breaking up with her bcs u might hurt her. might is substantial, not to mention, u ought to b thinking of the NOW, PRESENT, not possible future, bcs it's not even written on stone or anything that u will hurt her. if u really love her, [and sorry for the upcoming extremely straight-fwd comment]: YOU WILL CONTROL YOUR MAN-LIKE URGES AND NOT CHEAT ON HER BY HAVING SEX WITH ANOTHER GIRL CLOSER TO UR AGE! stressed furthermore, don't go ruining what u have now with this girl just bcs u want to get laid [no offense]. age doesn't matter if u really love her. and if u can "wait" for her, then u can b with her at the moment. lastly, u ought to make it clear to her that she shouldn't suicide over breaking up with u for one or another reason. u never know what's gonna happen, but if one thing's for sure, is the cliché of "time heals all wounds". i'm one to hate clichés, yet i admit, if they r this old, and still around, there's a reason for it, and that's the fact that they tell the truth. PS. "going out" and "girlfriend" aren't terms that go 'hand-in-hand' in this case. it's either going out and u r nothing YET, or already went out, and have a relationship at the moment, meaning u already are boyfriend and girlfriend. just a though, anyway.... ninja
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Posted: Mon Nov 27, 2006 1:27 pm
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Posted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 7:40 pm
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Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 1:03 pm
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Posted: Wed Dec 06, 2006 4:21 pm
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