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Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 4:01 pm
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Hey guys! I joined this Guild a while ago but never got around to posting... But here I am anyways!
This probably isn't nearly as pressing as some of the other things are here, but probably easier to give advice on. Anyways, I'm a Freshman in High School and I was considering starting that whole dating junk. Like most people, I'm not the most well-liked kid in my class, but I'm certainly not an outcast.
I've never been on a date before and it seems like a pretty good way to pass the time... And if I /were/ to start dating I'd have a couple of choices to pursue;
The Crush - Someone I've had a crush on for a few years now... But unfortunately is already in a relationship. The good thing is, we're best friends and our relationship is pretty good... But I wouldn't wanna spoil that for tongue-kissing. Same age.
The Nerdy Boys - I know quite a few gamer boys that I'm sure would be willing to escort me... None of them are that bad in the looks department either. Same age.
The Benchwarmer - A kid I don't know too well... But has asked me out twice now, and I've refused twice. At the dance they meant to ask me to, tried to dance with me but I cussed him out instead. Sent me a red rose last Valentine's Day. A little uncouth. Two years older.
The Poet - I don't know much about this person. An avid artist and poet; sent me a purple rose last Valentine's Day. Actually involved with my last crush. A year older.
The Long-Distance Crush - I know this probably wouldn't work, but I'm relatively hopeful. We've known each other for a long time, and we both feel the same way about each other. The only thing is, they live nearly all the way across the States. A few months younger.
I just wanted to know your opinion on things, how your experiences dating have been and advice on who I'd actually pursue.
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Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 11:24 pm
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I am sorry to say i never took time to really think about dating guys. I am so obsesd with getting a job (even when i have a job, i am allways searching for a better one) or thinking about what to study. Some guys i met through a fixing up, this allways end up with couple of dates not more, and most of them i met from just beeing near them. When i see a guy i like i just ask him out. Most of the time they think about it first, so they ask me out. I guess i am not a good example my first kiss was on age 17, and it was a guy i met at a concert, and i never saw him since. Anyway about you, i say try going out with the guy who ask you out, it is clear he want's you. So i think it is a good start. Jus't one advice for the dating, if you can convince him, without a big fight over this, pay for yourself. This way you don't feel obligat to give something back.
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Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 7:44 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 7:04 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 10:01 pm
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A) Yeah, if you're definitely wanting to start now, ask the guy you called "benchwarmer".
B)Stay away from long distance until you have a job and a car as well. Easier for safety, and less headache and heartache from all the separation that'll be necessary. I'm in my second long distance relationship, I'm 28, and I'll tell you- it's hard.
C) Ask for what you want of any guy you date. A really good indicator of whether or not he's worth the time is if he still respects your wishes, even when he disagrees with you.
D) Honestly, if you don't want to do something with a guy you're dating:
Tell him, tell him, tell him, tell him, tell him, tell him, tell him, tell him, tell him! It will ALWAYS turn out worse if you don't, or if you wait. Yes, even if it seesms like hearing "No" will hurt his feelings. Sometimes, that's unavoidable, and it's better to do a little hurt, instead of a lot.
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Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 4:51 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 4:25 am
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