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Posted: Sat May 24, 2008 4:16 pm
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Posted: Sat May 24, 2008 5:46 pm
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Posted: Sat May 24, 2008 5:49 pm
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Posted: Sat May 24, 2008 10:01 pm
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Yeah, I agree, instead of looking at what she can do, Look at what YOU can do, and work on them to make them better. You're only as beautiful as you let yourself to be. So let yourself grow, instead of letting her hold you back. She may have some qualities that are different, but it doesn't make it necessarily better. You're you, and you have to accept that before you can be happy with being her friend. If it's to hard, then maybe you need to stop hanging around her so much. In the end, the only person you need to be worrying about being happy, is you.
Good luck, and if you need more advice, PM me smile
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 10:54 am
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 5:02 pm
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 7:28 pm
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Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 8:33 am
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Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 9:19 am
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Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 3:52 pm
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Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 6:12 pm
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Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 6:21 pm
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Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 4:26 pm
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the question you should ask is "is she really my best friend?" i had one of those "best friends", we were in the same class from 1st till 12th grade, and then shared an apartment for 4 years in college. i'm not very sociable, and she is, and we were always in the same class, so i kinda stuck with her. i didn't really thought about it, but the reality was that i was comfortable and didn't want to get out of my comfort zone. she had traits that realy irked me sometimes but i'm the kind of person who keeps forgetting people's flaws. so we got to college and we both get into serious relationships. well, that shouldn't interfere with our friendship, right? wrong. she "dumped" me in an instant. i was realy pissed, cause after 14 years, it's like we're only aquaintances. so i cut her off completely. a while latter she tried to "reattach" our relation, emotional speech, lot's of tears, and i was like, ok, sure. the next day it's like the conversation never happened. so i moved on completely. i am still polite to her (a very forced "polite"), but mostly i try to avoid her. she always acts like she regrets we not being friends anymore. yeah, whatever. anyways, we both married our college boyfriends. my husband is the best friend i could ever have, and now i realize what a real friendship is. it's not just hanging out. i should tell you to make an effort, try to change, bla bla bla, but what life tells me is that some people are not worth the effort. you have to weed out your friends, only the real ones are worth it, and honestly, if you think all those things about your friend, it's not worth it, it will only bring you down. but that's only my opinion (and sorry for the looong drama) dramallama
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Posted: Wed Jun 04, 2008 4:03 pm
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Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 4:37 am
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