How would you feel.......

[X-BLACK-FIRE-NINJA-X]

How would you guys feel...If you knew that one of your really best freinds sells her body on Internet?

what happend was that i wrote her nickname she always uses ,and its really a unique one,on google and made a search......well i found the first site was a porn site,so i really got surprised and enterd the site,and there she was,my best friend is tottally naked.......

I am really in a bad mood but i need help...what should i do?  

[Lineriku]

do you like this friend of yours...like like??  

[TheBlueWarrior]

Well, that sucks. Confront her, its the only thing to do. If she won't stop her ways then she's not a friend you want.  

[moonchie]

I guess the best you can do is talk to her, but if she keeps doing it, you can't force her to stop. It's her choice even if it's a bad one.

She's your friend, so if you guys are close I imagine she'll listen to what you have to say.  

[jfm567]

how old is she? and why are you googleing nicknames? O_o  

[Iconised Ghost]

i would just leave it. If she didnt tell u, maybe she doesnt want you to know or doesnt want to talk about it with you. If you are concerned for her safety you could say that you saw it and are worried for her, but otherwise...its tricky because she's ur friend, obviously you want to look out for her. You could just say you saw it and that it upset you....but that may still upset her.  

[X-BLACK-FIRE-NINJA-X]

Guy's she is more like a small sister to me,i've known her for 2 years now,i even had 3 fights for her,and if you met her you will know why i am afraid..she looks so beautifull and she is so innocent that she dosent even swear except on rare occasions,add to that she is 13 years old. I am still trying to convince myself that it is not her but...It really is her,same eyes,same hair,same nickname,the only thing i hope for is that i am wrong about this issue,maybe she saw another girl that looks exactly like her and just wanted to show off maybe ,or she photoshopped it.
And i can't confront her or talk about it with her,what if i was wrong?what if it was not her and i told her it is you?
guys please help me? I really need a good advice about it  

[moonchie]

Well you won't know if it's her unless you talk to her. Seriously, she's a minor, warn someone. If it's not her than you're helping her by letting her know that someone is using her image for that, it does happen. But you HAVE to speak with her. If you're afraid of her reaction nothing will get done and then what's the point? Just confront her already, let her know about how you found that web page and saw her. If she's a saint as you say then that's not her then, but if it is, you'll have to let her parents know. They'll get mad at her and most likely severely punish her, but it's for the best. I did say it was her choice, but the girl is under age! Her parents need to handle this.

If you're worried that she'll get mad at you, then think about it. Isn't that better than her getting into a bigger mess later on? Just make sure it's contained between you and her parents and that no one else finds out. That way at least she'll be save from further pain.

It might not even come to that, that might not be her and just someone who took her picture and used it for that. Just speak.  

[Dr Entropy]

Munchie's right

You seriously need to tell her parents. She'll hate you for it, but its for her own good. [or maby just send her parents an anonymous letter in their mailbox. Maby include the website so they can decide if its her for themselves] There are some things that a friend just can't handle for someone. Its something that only parents would know how to fix. It might seem like if her parents finding out would ruin her life but in reality its steering her away from a much worse life.  

[Artanus]

Oh my, god. it's completely obvious what to do! blackmail her. Threaten to post pictures of her all 'round school. And when she pays you, post em' up anyway, just for kicks and giggles. You don't want to be her freind anyway.  

[Lineriku]

well, youve heard a lot of advice......but ultimately its your decision..............if it were me in your shoes, personally i wouldnt abandon her......you wouldnt want to regret it later.........i wouldve asked for help like you did, but i think i would choose to talk to her...and only her, id try to leave the parents out of it for now......so do what you feel is right, help her out........and if things get out of hand, only then would i speak to her parents...........think hard on this one, i wish you the best possible outcome  

[Goddess Ace]

Being 13, she's a high target for internet predators. Leaving this unreported could get her into serious trouble. It's possible that her personal information could be found out and someone could show up at her doorstep.

You need to tell her parents, even if she does hate you for it - you could be saving her life. Also, you or her parents need to contact the admin of that website and report that she's underaged so the pictures will be removed. If it's a website specifically meant for naked pictures of minors, then it needs to be shut down, which ususally the police would become involved.  

[X-BLACK-FIRE-NINJA-X]

I took care of the website,no more worries about it ,i will just hope that there aren't any other websites with the same picture or its going to be troublesome ,right now i will have to find a way to tell her about it and see if its really her or not ,because if it was her........guy's ,thanks for the advices,now its time for me to act.......

--B.Fire  

[jfm567]

Its the sad truth that if naked pictures can get out on the internet, they WILL get out. Even I could have naked pictures of myself on the internet. Not saying that i do. >_>  

[Pachelbel Canon]

Something similar to this situation happened to me, except I was on the other end of it...I found my face photoshopped onto a body that wasn't mine...a naked one at that. O_o When I saw it I was pretty upset and I let the website know that it needed to be taken down, and they did take it down. If one of my friends had seen that first I would want them to tell me, and not just be upset by it and maybe think things about me that aren't true. I'm sure that's how your friend would feel too.

If it's a doctored photo of her then she probably be very upset to see herself online like that. But, you never know, people do sometimes lead double-lives. And if it is her naked, she is a minor, and that is very, very dangerous. I think you should go to her parents, or like Entropy said, write them a letter with the picture printed out. Explain that it may or may not be her and that it might be a digitally altered photograph, so that they don't jump to conclusions. Either way it's important that they know because this is their child, and if something happened to her and they never found out about this it would be on your guilty conscience.