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Posted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 8:22 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 8:54 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 10, 2009 6:24 am
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Posted: Tue Feb 10, 2009 9:19 am
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Posted: Tue Feb 10, 2009 10:59 am
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Well, here recently, I've realized that I have yet to meet a single person who doesn't mind hearing me rant about issues I have with my body (shape of my eyes, size of my features, etc.). They seem to always feel the need to comfort me by saying they see nothing wrong and by offering up compliments. Now, while I find that very sweet of them...that's not the reaction I'm hoping to get. In fact, I'm really not wanting any sort of reaction at all. I don't feel bad about how I look really. There are just some things I'd like to change if I could and I'm sure everyone feels that way about themselves (except maybe Brad Pitt).
The thing is, I can easily see why they'd get annoyed with me if they feel like they have to constantly try and boost up my self-esteem... and the reality is that by complaining about myself, I'm putting them in an awkward position.
So, what I've learned is that I need to be more conscious of others when having a conversation with them and that there are some things you just need to keep to yourself.
I wouldn't have posted this because it really does seem like a no-brainer but, maybe there are some people here who could get something from it. So...since I'm on this kick about considering others, I figured...why not?
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Posted: Tue Feb 10, 2009 11:06 am
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Posted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 8:20 am
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Posted: Thu Feb 12, 2009 8:22 am
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Posted: Thu Feb 12, 2009 9:26 am
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Posted: Thu Feb 12, 2009 2:14 pm
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Posted: Thu Feb 12, 2009 2:18 pm
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