Just thought you should know (update tiem)

[Kerrigan_dragon]

So I just thought people should know this, yesterday Roland got kicked out of his house. He'd been planning to move out for a while, and told his mother the plan. She didn't approve, and he told her he wasn't asking her permission. She got angry and his dad got in on it and now he's been kicked out.

Currently his friend has found him a place to stay for a while, then he's going into job corps, where they give you a place to stay and train you for a degree. He's hoping that he can get his credits transfered to finish his computer graphic design degree. So that's his whole situation, as I know it. Just thought you guys should know, and he wanted me to tell the ATG.

Update edit: So it's been a few months since Roland got back... and now he's homeless again. We don't even know if he's been kicked out or if he just left. All that happened was Roland left IRC with this message:
|<-- Roland has left chat.serenia.net (Quit: , I'm homeless again guys)
I tried texting him, but to no avail. Hoping he's alright, and again, I just thought you guys should know this... again.

Discuss:
-getting kicked out
-b*tch mothers
-stressful family life
-finding housing in an emergency
-family drama
-insane brothers (or siblings, or family in general) who seriously need therapy
-mushroom hats
-anything else that's relevant  

[aretoo]

Hopefully he'll be able to join the family again soon. sad

And yeah... from everything he's shared with us here, she sounds like a total *loon*. Perhaps one year when she gets lonely she'll feel sorry... but probably just for *herself*. neutral  

[Rica is insane]

Aww poor Rol >: I know what it's like to have a b***h mother. D:

-huggles Rol-

 

[God-Raped-Me]

As if the poor guy didn't already have a hard enough time with stalker chicky poo, he gets kicked out too! Tell him we hope the best!

 

[Trish the Stalker]

I got kicked out once. I went to stay a few days at a friend's house and my mom was so pissed it turned into over a year.

It'll be tough but I wish him better luck than I had (friend turned into abusive boyfriend, awkward situation... yeah)

-Formerly La Belle Isolde-

 

[Sentama Lin]

I apologise for being the negative wet blanket in this situation, but I don't feel that his parents deserve to be part of his life considering they've treated him quite badly. As devastating as this is this could be the chance Rol needs in order to get out of that toxic relationship from his parents. Ergo, the best thing to do is to give him the support he needs -- for he's no longer getting that from his parents.

The support doesn't have to be financial; when I was going through my spiel the emotional and caring support I had from friends here and in real life kept me moving toward my goal (once I realised it): to finally live for myself and not for the sake of my parents.

He deserves that; everyone does. So, well, I do wish him the best of luck, and I hope that we all can be supportive of him.  

[Sanzoskitsune]

I said this in the IRC and in the phunkeh last night and I'll say it again. While it sucks that he got kicked out of his house, at least he got away from his psycho mom. The best circumstances would've probably been for him to build up some money first and then move out but since that didn't happen at the very least he doesn't have to deal with all the BS going on at home. I send him all my love and all my luck... well actually half my luck cause the other half is going to a family friend who is desperately looking for a job (she's got bills to pay and kids to take care of).

I hope we get to see him back here in the near future, he may be relatively new but so far I think he's an awesome guy and would hate to never get to chat with him online.  

[AlcoholicPancake]

Damn, this sucks... Rol was a fun person to talk to, even though I didn't really get to talk to him much, he seemed like a interesting person to me... If anyone talks to him sometime soon, let him know that Pancake is wishing him the best of luck. I'm glad he's away from his crazy mom, and I agree with Lin when it comes to his parents not deserving to be a part of his life. If they're so quick to throw him out, then to hell with them!

Best of luck to Rol, and like I said, I hope everything starts getting better for him.  

[aretoo]

I should note: When I said "join the family again", I did NOT mean living with them again. That ship has long since sailed. smile (And I wouldn't wish that household on an enemy, let alone a friend.)  

[Sentama Lin]

I figured, aretoo, but that's a statement that I fear (unfortunately, through my own bias and experience) might never happen.

I hope that it does happen, and that he's treated like the adult that all adults should be treated, but...  

[Spifflicious]

I've texted him a few times. He at least had the sanity left to let me know he had a place to chill for the night last night.

I've never had an experience like that. Luckily my parents are both very... what's the word... docile? They'd never do anything like that.

Either way, I've housed a few friends that were kicked out. I just wish I lived somewhere near Rol to give a place to stay. confused  

[The Dinosaur Next Door]

That's awful. I hope he's doing alright? It can't be easy on him.  

[Surazal Dloc]

I don't really have any comment to make other than "That is really awful" So I'm just ognna use this space to wish Rolland good luck. And I hope things turn out ok. No, not ok. I hope hey turn out better and happier.  

[YukiOfTheMightnightHour]

Though I do not believe I have met Rolland I wish him good luck. I understand what it is like to have b*tchy parents that fought constently, and still do. Although I have never been kicked out I did move out last summer out of desperation to get away from them and lived with my boyfriend for 7 months. But school demanded more of both me and my BF and I had to move back in with my parents to save money and continue school while my BF moved to NC to finish his schooling. It is tough, but you learn to survive. 3nodding  

[Thaliat Everwood]

While it sucks that he's been kicked out, it still seems that he's probably better off because of it. It sure didn't sound like life in that house was all that good for him. Hopefully things will improve for Rol soon. I'll keep my fingers crossed for him.