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Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2009 12:52 pm
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Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2009 1:10 pm
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I'm not female, so I'll never be in that situation. Your "friend", you say? :
It's "her" call. I think abortion should be a last resort, but who am I to decide what's best for someone else?
All babies have the potential to experience health problems later in life, though. *shrug*
If "she" truly isn't ready for a baby, that really only leaves two options: adoption or abortion. I know several people who were adopted, and for the most part, they are fine with it. One guy found out when he was 25, so obviously that was a bit of a shock, but his concerns were more with his adopted family having lied to him. I don't know how things are in the UK, but the waiting time for an adoption here are long. Like, years and years long. Of course, that generally only applies to healthy babies...
Anyway, best of luck to your "friend"?
This would probably be best suited for IDD (in-depth discussion), since it is something of a hot-button topic...
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Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2009 1:23 pm
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Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2009 2:54 pm
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Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2009 3:41 pm
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Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2009 4:08 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 6:13 am
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Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 9:24 am
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Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 2:56 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 3:13 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 4:20 pm
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Posted: Wed May 13, 2009 7:47 pm
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Hm. Well if it were me in that position with those concerns, I would choose abortion. Carrying a child to term for 9 months or so and dealing with all the side effects of pregnancy if I knew I wasn't going to keep the child seems like wasted suffering...especially since I am not the type to add to the population of "unwanted" children waiting in foster homes. I suppose if there was already an adoptive family waiting for the child and I was aware of the arrangements, it would be different...but that is the only exception that would have me willing to suffer for 9 months for something that I receive no benefit from.
As for your friend, it is her choice, but there is no shame in aborting a pregnancy. Well, I believe there is no shame in it, but if she follows a religion that forbids it, it is up to her to decide what is more important to her. And if she is going to keep it, she needs to lay of the drugs and booze.
wakusei The options should be more like "pro-life" and "pro-choice." saying abortion is good is like saying you're pro-abortion...which no one is... neutral
I am "pro-abortion by choice". I'm not planning to get knocked up, but I like knowing I have the option to abort if something goes wrong. I won't force anyone else to choose abortion, but I'll be damned if I'm going to let anyone tell me I have to carry an unwanted fetus for 9 months just because the pill and condoms don't stop the sperm. My body, my choice. No body else's...just mine. If I want kids, I plan to adopt. I have no desire to curse a child with my family's history of odd illnesses/diseases and such. talk2hand
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Profitable Conversationalist
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Posted: Wed May 20, 2009 11:02 am
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Thaliat Everwood ... wakusei The options should be more like "pro-life" and "pro-choice." saying abortion is good is like saying you're pro-abortion...which no one is... neutral I am "pro-abortion by choice". I'm not planning to get knocked up, but I like knowing I have the option to abort if something goes wrong. I won't force anyone else to choose abortion, but I'll be damned if I'm going to let anyone tell me I have to carry an unwanted fetus for 9 months just because the pill and condoms don't stop the sperm. My body, my choice. No body else's...just mine. If I want kids, I plan to adopt. I have no desire to curse a child with my family's history of odd illnesses/diseases and such. talk2hand I feel that the choice is made at the opportunity for conception. Once you let him put it in you (or choose to put in her) you've made the choice that there is a possibility that you'll end up with a kid. You can use all the contraceptives you want, but if you're ultimately not prepared to deal with the baby, then you shouldn't be ******** around.
Also, if you have no intention of ever bearing children, then why don't you get your tubes tied? Seems to me it would be a lot less stressful, physically and mentally, than having an abortion should the "need" arise.
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