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So, let's poll the status of passers by. |
Attached. |
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30% |
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23% |
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Recently (or not recently) broke up. |
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15% |
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Never been in a relationship with more impact than "friends." |
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26% |
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 1:11 am
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Welcome, those of us who are either unattached, unlucky in love, or otherwise jaded about the rose-tinted world we aren't a part of. Here is a place where you can grump and grouse about it to your heart's content, or commiserate and scheme on future prospects.
Since I could not find the old thread for the BOMC, I have taken it upon myself to dress in the manner of a butler with a maid hat. We only get one opening day, after all.
I know this probably sounds like I'm cultivating a batch of sour grapes here, but I hope for this place to become an outlet for people to vent their frustrations.
So, discussion points are love, luck, the world, and how we aren't getting any of it.
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 6:23 am
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 6:28 am
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 6:38 am
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 6:52 am
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 11:23 am
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 1:52 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 3:13 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 3:24 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 3:32 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 3:35 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 5:09 pm
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I can't say I'm totally a bitter maid. I'll just... go and take all the bitter man-maids and they can serve me fresh cheeses and breads and fruits. >.>
On to the thread, I'm very aware that I'm still holding selfish thoughts, mainly based on jealousy, of a very good friend of mine who I love with -- what my boss, friend, and critical ally describe -- an unconditional love. Or, it would be unconditional if I wasn't so selfish and wanting him for myself.
I can't seem to see sometimes that he is still very much in my life and I still very much love him and that he appreciates that and loves that part of me. However, the jealous part of me can't stand that I'm not the one that he gave a chance at a relationship, for (again, this is the selfishness) I I want to be the person to give him the most happiness, and I would do anything for him to attain the happiness he wants. Part of me loves him, and knows that if I truly love him I must let him be free to do as he wishes instead of being bound to me. The other part agonises sometimes (it's losing it's hold on me, thankfully) that he didn't choose me, and wonders why.
*shrugs*
That's my situation. It's not really that he's causing trouble; my thoughts are causing trouble for myself.
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 5:14 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 5:20 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 5:47 pm
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