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PostPosted: Fri Mar 26, 2010 6:59 pm
i have a friend who likes this guy but shes a christian and kinda like a light person, but the guy she likes is a really dark guy, and she realy likes him, if they started dating does any one think it would work?  
PostPosted: Fri Mar 26, 2010 7:00 pm
I think it would. They just gotta...I dunno, try to avoid the subject of religion.  

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 26, 2010 7:12 pm
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I think it would. They just gotta...I dunno, try to avoid the subject of religion.

another problem is the guy she likes is into drugs, she says her friend told her he does drugs everyday. and she doesn't know if it would work if they dated, if they tryed.  
PostPosted: Fri Mar 26, 2010 8:16 pm
There's a Time to Laugh "Ephesians 2: 8-9"


Does she talk to him often? Does she know his views on God? Does he express an interest in her at all? You can't take other people's words about someone and automatically assume they are right. And by drugs does she mean he is a pot head, pill head, meth head, crack head, or coke head?

Maybe she should become friends with this person and see where it goes from there if she isn't already friends with him.

It really isn't often that a relationship between a Godly person and a godless person works out. Both have to be will to make it work but that doesn't mean they should compromise their morals. If going out with this guy means that she has to set aside her christian beliefs in anyway then it won't work and it should be tested.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 26, 2010 8:25 pm
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There's a Time to Laugh "Ephesians 2: 8-9"


Does she talk to him often? Does she know his views on God? Does he express an interest in her at all? You can't take other people's words about someone and automatically assume they are right. And by drugs does she mean he is a pot head, pill head, meth head, crack head, or coke head?

Maybe she should become friends with this person and see where it goes from there if she isn't already friends with him.

It really isn't often that a relationship between a Godly person and a godless person works out. Both have to be will to make it work but that doesn't mean they should compromise their morals. If going out with this guy means that she has to set aside her christian beliefs in anyway then it won't work and it should be tested.

And a Time to Cry "Romans 5: 3-5"


she didn't say what her friend said, just that she said he was a druggie, and she isn't friends with him, like i said hes really kept to himself and quiet, this song describes him quie well: i can't decide by Scissor Sisters  
PostPosted: Fri Mar 26, 2010 8:41 pm
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There's a Time to Laugh "Ephesians 2: 8-9"


Does she talk to him often? Does she know his views on God? Does he express an interest in her at all? You can't take other people's words about someone and automatically assume they are right. And by drugs does she mean he is a pot head, pill head, meth head, crack head, or coke head?

Maybe she should become friends with this person and see where it goes from there if she isn't already friends with him.

It really isn't often that a relationship between a Godly person and a godless person works out. Both have to be will to make it work but that doesn't mean they should compromise their morals. If going out with this guy means that she has to set aside her christian beliefs in anyway then it won't work and it should be tested.

And a Time to Cry "Romans 5: 3-5"


she didn't say what her friend said, just that she said he was a druggie, and she isn't friends with him, like i said hes really kept to himself and quiet, this song describes him quie well: i can't decide by Scissor Sisters
There's a Time to Laugh "Ephesians 2: 8-9"


Well then maybe your friend should try getting to know this guy before you tries having a relationship with him. May be he needs a friend, someone to talk to. how does that song describe him so well? Are you friends with him? If you don't know him on a personal level it only describes what you see in him.

And a Time to Cry "Romans 5: 3-5"
 

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 26, 2010 9:09 pm
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I think it would. They just gotta...I dunno, try to avoid the subject of religion.

another problem is the guy she likes is into drugs, she says her friend told her he does drugs everyday. and she doesn't know if it would work if they dated, if they tryed.

Read the book The Heroin Diaries. By Nikki Sixx. It'll scare any inclination to do drugs right out of you.
It could work. I tend to be fairly dark sometimes, and I try to be a good Christian... key word is try... But if he does drugs... I can't tell you to be ok with it. More likely he would end up bringing her down rather than her bringing him up.  
PostPosted: Sat Mar 27, 2010 12:08 pm
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If he isn't a Christian and is doing drugs, then no.



Because grey will not do.
 

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 27, 2010 12:48 pm
Hmmm, that is tough because if your friend is stong in her faith, then it might do the guy some good to know her but if she is easily manipulated, it could be dangerous for her to know him.  
PostPosted: Sat Mar 27, 2010 12:49 pm
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Hmmm, that is tough because if your friend is stong in her faith, then it might do the guy some good to know her but if she is easily manipulated, it could be dangerous for her to know him.


You can tickle me pink, orange, red, or blue, but not grey



Even people who are strong in their faith can be taken down by others.



Because grey will not do.
 

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 27, 2010 5:22 pm
Well, your friend shouldn't change how she is just to go out with some guy. If she can get along with him and they are compatible and he won't influence her, then she should give it a try, you never know what God has up his sleeve.  
PostPosted: Mon Mar 29, 2010 7:47 pm
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Hmmm, that is tough because if your friend is stong in her faith, then it might do the guy some good to know her but if she is easily manipulated, it could be dangerous for her to know him.


You can tickle me pink, orange, red, or blue, but not grey



Even people who are strong in their faith can be taken down by others.



Because grey will not do.

she is very strong in her faith, nothing can break her of it, and if anything or anyone tried she would end up avoiding the thing or person altogether.  

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 29, 2010 7:48 pm
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I think it would. They just gotta...I dunno, try to avoid the subject of religion.

another problem is the guy she likes is into drugs, she says her friend told her he does drugs everyday. and she doesn't know if it would work if they dated, if they tryed.

Read the book The Heroin Diaries. By Nikki Sixx. It'll scare any inclination to do drugs right out of you.
It could work. I tend to be fairly dark sometimes, and I try to be a good Christian... key word is try... But if he does drugs... I can't tell you to be ok with it. More likely he would end up bringing her down rather than her bringing him up.

she had so intention of doing drugs.  
PostPosted: Mon Mar 29, 2010 9:45 pm
You can tickle me pink, orange, red, or blue, but not grey



Like I said before, if he isn't a Christian, then no. The bible says we are not to be unequally yolked.



Because grey will not do.
 

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 10:46 am
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You can tickle me pink, orange, red, or blue, but not grey



Like I said before, if he isn't a Christian, then no. The bible says we are not to be unequally yolked.



Because grey will not do.


whats uneaqually yolked mean?  
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