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Posted: Wed Jun 23, 2010 4:36 pm
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I know almost everyone knows what deppression is. but has anyone actually felt it? Here is what i found that someone wrote about it:
"Most everyday my heart feels empty. I feel so sad and lonely. I try my best most everyday, but one way or another, I seem to ruin everything. I've been called emo, b*t*h, b#st*rd, I've had death threats, blackmail, and more. But I don't tell anyone,they probaly won't care anyway. Sometimes I get so sad I start to write, like this,with my hands still shakey. "I just don't think I deserve any of it anymore. Everything I ever had is not mine, it all belongs to my parents. I wonder what they would do with 'my' stuff after I die. To bad I'll never know. "The Bible says you must love yourself to love others, but how can i love myself? Also if I keep acting this way I'll end up in Hell. "'God please help me, 'cause I need you.'"
have any idea how serious deppression is now?
PLEASE COMMENT!!!
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Posted: Wed Jun 23, 2010 4:50 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 23, 2010 5:10 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 23, 2010 5:10 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 23, 2010 6:24 pm
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boo-boo8 The Chaos God Dusk You're not depressed. You still try. Truly deep depression, you sort of wind down like one of them old-fashioned toy soldiers. I know, because I was diagnosed as severely depressed and high suicide risk, and was heavily medicated. You stop trying, you stop caring, you stop feeling. i never siad i was the one deppressed! but its really serious for my friend
If it's your friend, tell them how much they mean to you, how your life would never be the same without them. I can speak personally, and when a friend told me that, especially cause they were a true friend, it just slowly started to dissipate. There are also some devotional books that quote the Bible and may help with their situation. If you find one, buy it and give it to them. If money's tight, look in a concordance for something and write a verse out that you think they will enjoy. Do something fun together. Never allow that person to forget how special they are to you. smile
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 2:14 am
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The Chaos God Dusk You're not depressed. You still try. Truly deep depression, you sort of wind down like one of them old-fashioned toy soldiers. I know, because I was diagnosed as severely depressed and high suicide risk, and was heavily medicated. You stop trying, you stop caring, you stop feeling.
As with every psychological malady/disorder, there isn't a cookie cutter definition of 'depression'. There are many degrees of depression, and sometimes people are depressed along with other serious health concerns. You're right in that what she posted wasn't similar to what someone suffering a truly deep depression would write, but from what I can tell, said person is still depressed.
"Feeling depressed is a normal reaction to loss, life's struggles, or an injured self-esteem. But when these feelings become overwhelming and last for long periods of time, they can keep you from leading a normal, active life. That's when it's time to seek medical help."
There are many types of depression, these are just a few:
Major Depression
Chronic Depression (Dysthymia)
Atypical Depression
Postpartum Depression
Bipolar Depression (Manic Depression)
Seasonal Depression (SAD)
Psychotic Depression
So, just because someone's depression doesn't line up with what you were diagnosed for, doesn't necessarily mean that they aren't depressed. Be careful in snap judgements, especially where people's health, mental or otherwise, are concerned. Unless you are a certified Psychiatrist, don't even presume to tell someone whether or not they are depressed or not.
@boo-boo8 If you couldn't already tell, yes, I do think depression is a serious health concern that should be addressed by a professional as soon as possible. My advice would be to talk with this person, encourage them to seek help and guidance, but most importantly, let them know you care! Sometimes knowledge that someone out there cares about you is enough to get started on the right track. If they know Jesus, encourage them to look through their bibles. There are hundreds of places throughout the bible where God explicitly tells us just how much he cares for us. He's always there, even if we can't feel him.
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 3:59 am
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From a person who has been diagnosed with depression, in my opinion, avoid telling people that they are not depressed. It has been my experience that that hurts people more than helps them.
@boo-boo8 Yes, I think depression is a serious health concern. Mine got so bad that I needed to see a counselor. It helped. I also turned to some medication for a short period of time. That also helped. What really helped the most was Jesus. I have a serious dislike and distrust of counselors and I am anti-antidepressants. But I can't deny that they did help me through the worst of it. And I was okay with it because the Lord was with me through it.
If your friend is going through some depression, as others said, let them know you care and let them know how special they are to you! From a person who deals with depression, that alone can be a ray of sunshine that can cut through anything. Most often, they are wondering if they are worth anything to anyone. Let them know how much you love them!
If they know the Lord, remind him or her how much He loves us and how much He takes care of us. If your friend doesn't know the Lord, ask if they'd feel comfortable with you sharing some Scripture with them that tells them how much Jesus loves us.
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 11:33 am
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 4:53 pm
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CrimsonsDecayingRose boo-boo8 The Chaos God Dusk You're not depressed. You still try. Truly deep depression, you sort of wind down like one of them old-fashioned toy soldiers. I know, because I was diagnosed as severely depressed and high suicide risk, and was heavily medicated. You stop trying, you stop caring, you stop feeling. i never siad i was the one deppressed! but its really serious for my friend If it's your friend, tell them how much they mean to you, how your life would never be the same without them. I can speak personally, and when a friend told me that, especially cause they were a true friend, it just slowly started to dissipate. There are also some devotional books that quote the Bible and may help with their situation. If you find one, buy it and give it to them. If money's tight, look in a concordance for something and write a verse out that you think they will enjoy. Do something fun together. Never allow that person to forget how special they are to you. smile
what if they were a guy friend and they took it the wrong way?
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 4:57 pm
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 7:49 pm
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boo-boo8 CrimsonsDecayingRose boo-boo8 The Chaos God Dusk You're not depressed. You still try. Truly deep depression, you sort of wind down like one of them old-fashioned toy soldiers. I know, because I was diagnosed as severely depressed and high suicide risk, and was heavily medicated. You stop trying, you stop caring, you stop feeling. i never siad i was the one deppressed! but its really serious for my friend If it's your friend, tell them how much they mean to you, how your life would never be the same without them. I can speak personally, and when a friend told me that, especially cause they were a true friend, it just slowly started to dissipate. There are also some devotional books that quote the Bible and may help with their situation. If you find one, buy it and give it to them. If money's tight, look in a concordance for something and write a verse out that you think they will enjoy. Do something fun together. Never allow that person to forget how special they are to you. smile what if they were a guy friend and they took it the wrong way? you could specify that you mean it as a very good friend who's concerned for him
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 7:51 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 6:31 am
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boo-boo8 CrimsonsDecayingRose boo-boo8 The Chaos God Dusk You're not depressed. You still try. Truly deep depression, you sort of wind down like one of them old-fashioned toy soldiers. I know, because I was diagnosed as severely depressed and high suicide risk, and was heavily medicated. You stop trying, you stop caring, you stop feeling. i never siad i was the one deppressed! but its really serious for my friend If it's your friend, tell them how much they mean to you, how your life would never be the same without them. I can speak personally, and when a friend told me that, especially cause they were a true friend, it just slowly started to dissipate. There are also some devotional books that quote the Bible and may help with their situation. If you find one, buy it and give it to them. If money's tight, look in a concordance for something and write a verse out that you think they will enjoy. Do something fun together. Never allow that person to forget how special they are to you. smile what if they were a guy friend and they took it the wrong way?
Tell him that you mean this only as a friend. Or maybe arrange the words carefully.
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Posted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 6:22 pm
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