You can tickle me pink, orange, red, or blue, but not grey
Pray and get into his word BIG time. I wasn't exactly too good on the whole honoring my parents part either, but once I started praying that he would help me, my relationship with my parents got much better. ^_^
As for using his name in vain...sometimes at those times that you say you do that I say "fudge" or "Holy cookies" or something stupid like that. XD I heard though that's still kinda bad, because you have the same idea in mind, that's why I've been trying to cut back on that. Just whenever you get to those moments: pray, repeat the verse to yourself, get to a radio and play some uplifting music, or repeat anything else to yourself that you think may help. Sometimes I repeat to myself "Temple of the Lord", because since we are the temple of the Lord, that should make us more not want to do anything bad or against his word. ^_^
Because grey will not do.