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Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2017 7:36 am
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Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2017 2:13 pm
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Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2017 4:12 pm
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Piggybacking off what Lotus said, the people who make fun of anyone for their sexual orientation -- are the same people who will make fun of someone for anything. If not sexual orientation, they'd find something else to fixate on and make up some crazy story about why it's just as 'weird.' So, say you were straight and they considered that to be normal, they'd find something else about you to make fun of. Is there something else? I don't know. XD I think making fun of sexual orientation is pretty stupid in the first place.
We're all different in our own ways. Anyone who's making fun of anyone... has their own insecurity that they're trying to hide. They're just deflecting. "Oh, if I make fun of that person, then we all can bond and be friends over making fun of that person. And they won't notice my big ear." ...Or whatever they're insecure about. XD;
We're all different. You do you, boo.
I went through times where I got a bit of teasing for one thing or another. I guess I'm lucky that I have a thick skin about it. I realized that words don't hurt.. that much. I mean, they do. And I had my moments. But I also realized: 1) Either what they said was false, so it didn't matter or 2) What they said was true. XD And... so what? In my case... not giving them a reaction worked. I didn't let it bother me, so they'd get bored and move move on. They'd say something once or twice, didn't get the reaction they'd want... and I'd never get teased by that person again. Or they'd be like, "Are you this?" I'd be like "Yep." And they'd just walk away. They'd have no comeback because they expected me to deny it. Fake it 'til you make it. Don't let them see that it bothers you... until you're actually at a point where their words don't bother you. Bisexual people are obviously part of society. And XDDD everyone is capable of spreading STDs. XDDD Ew. Stay away? Fine. You don't need ugly-hearted people like that in your life. They have some maturing and learning to do. Annddd, like Lotus said, try to surround yourself with some other people.
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Posted: Sun Jan 22, 2017 11:49 am
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2017 6:55 am
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Everyone has said very true things so far & I agree with them... U have 2 be true 2 UR self... I know it's hard 2 take sometimes, but it don't matter how others feel about U. If they can't except U the way U R, they R the 1 with a problem not U... Some ppl make fun of others 2 make them feel better about themselves R 2 cover up something they don't want others 2 know about them. I don't judge others cuz of their lifestyle... I try 2 see the kind of person they really R. How nice they R & how they treat others.. I can relate 2 FluffyMuffins230, cuz I've always been 1 pretty much 1 of the guys, even tho I'm a female... Even when I was young I liked playing with cars, football, climbing trees & stuff boys did instead of playing with dolls & girly stuff. My daddy accepted me the way I was & even taught me 2 work on cars, while others criticized me, even my 3 older brothers... As I got older I still felt like 1 of the guys.. I have been happily married 2 a man 41 years, but I still like stuff that guys do. I love watching & talking about football & hanging out with the guys instead of the women... I find stuff they do & talk about boring.. I won't wear dresses, frilly stuff R anything that looks like a female... I mostly wear T shirts & sweat pants... I say if others don't like it they don't have 2 look at me... I've had a few women get upset cuz they felt insecure about their men, but I'd tell I ant interested in their men just things they talk about & do... I'm 57 years old & still feel more like a man than a woman... I hate anything that women usually do, including cooking, even tho I still have 2 do it... Just be true 2 UR self & do what makes U happy....
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2017 10:21 am
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Posted: Tue Feb 07, 2017 1:06 pm
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Posted: Wed Feb 15, 2017 12:16 pm
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