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The Answer Is Not To Run Away, If You Really Love Her, You'll Tell her How You feel.

But Also, If You Dont Have The Strength To Summon Up The Words...
Well, You Know The Saying, 'there are plenty of fish in the river'

She's probably just bothered that you're leaving. Maybe she'll snap out of it if you just keep talking to her like you normally would. Tell her that you'll still be in touch from your new location (it's probably good to tell everyone this). Give them a screenname or phone number. If worse comes to worse, pull her aside and ask why she's acting like that. It can't hurt to ask.

Good luck, both with your friends and with your move.

I'm not sure if I should say it but I really need advice.

I like this boy, but I'm not sure if he likes me back. My friends tried to tell him my good points, without me knowing, but they told me he said something like "What's the point if she doesn't like me back" I'd love to tell him but I don't want to be rejected. He's a big time flirter too but he's so nice. What am I supposed to do?

I wish I could, but it would be so obvious I like him. He knows I wouldn't ask a boy out, even if my "friend" couldn't go....but thanks ><

That is really a big problem, but hey, do you know there is a very easy way for you two.. but it needs a lot of courage and you really have to go for that 50% chance.. I know it is very hard but if you would not do it nothin will happen.. okay.. so this way is the simplest but the most effective of all.. directly ask each other what you two really feel for each other.. if not, you will just end up prolonging the pain and doubt, the fears you two both feel.. so I think both of you should work on this directly.. I suggest don't ask someone to pass your messages because that would be a total mess.. I mean it.. first hand questinong is the best than passing messages to others.. and it would be a bad shot if ask someone to do it for you.. just grasp enough courage for you to do it.. remeber do it directly face to face or not, well what matters is that you two talk to each other and work on this.. if you are not sure because he's a big flirt? am i right? anyway, just aslo ask him his intentions.. you two should clear the issue right away.. just take this as a friendly advise okay.. i don't mean to hurt you or something.. ^^ biggrin

I agree. Rawr! biggrin

I was pretty depressed myself just a few months ago; now, suicide wasn't really an option for me, because I don't have the courage to do anything like that. Now, I'm not going to ask you to do anything other than consider what I say. What in your life could be so bad that you don't want to be around anymore? You shouldn't think totally of yourself; think of other people as well. Some people know that they are condemned to die soon; some haven't had a bite to eat in days; some are sitting out in the rain right now because thay can't afford anywhere to stay. I'm sure that there are many people out there who are worse off than you, and yet, they hang in there day after day. They have hope. They know that there is a chance that everything will change around some day. Maybe, instead of trying to find an immediate cure for your depression, you should hope for sunnier days.

Also, this piece of advice I give to everybody, but I think that it's a good point. Life is short, and you only get one chance at it. If you do commit suicide, think of all the great experiences you will miss. I'm sure that there will be bad experiences, too, but they can't haunt you forever.

Why don't you think about what I said for a bit? Good luck to you, and I hope you make the right choice.