sex??

[MatsuTsuko]

So when do you guys think a good age to be having sex??? There are some crazy people out there who do it when there 14!! THAT is just wrong. In my opinon it should be after one gets married. OR if you reallly really really really love someone..  

[HeartlessMagic]

well, i agree with you.. it is better in my opinon, to have sex after marriage, but i guess u cant control other ppls actions ya know? its really sad how many STDs there are these days...  

[Aitoyoru]

Whenever both partners feel ready.  

[Mara_Brightwing]

Until both partners are ready to commit to parenting a possible child, with the maturity and resources that will take, they should not have sex. No matter how many precautions you take, there are still possibilities that a child can be created.

When you have a child, life as you know it ends and life as a parent begins. If you're not ready for that, girls, don't put it out there. And guys, making a baby doesn't make you a man, regardless of what your friends say. Making a baby proves you're a male. Taking responsibility proves you're a man. If you're not ready for that responsibility, keep it in your pants.  

[Goddess Ace]

I agree with Mara.

My cousin is 16 and she had a baby, now she's failed 9th grade again and has to get a part time job to support the baby. If you're going to have sex, be cautious of either making a child or getting an STD.  

[mellenois]

i think that age is different for everyone. and i will wait till i can get a babys responsibility. because being a parent when you are not ready for that, not only ruins your life. it also ruins your parents' and your babys life.  

[Zahara_90]

I don't belive in sex before marrige because if you are virgin on your webbing night at least you know you are giving your partner your all, but if you really really really really loved someone and you both felt ready then i suppose it could be ok smile  

[Archarion]

MatsuTsuko

So when do you guys think a good age to be having sex??? There are some crazy people out there who do it when there 14!! THAT is just wrong. In my opinon it should be after one gets married. OR if you reallly really really really love someone..

you know i totally agree. but what if these 14 year olds 'think' there in love? its still not right in my opinion but in these days people are having sex younger and younger.  

[Archarion]

it really grosses me out when a WAY older guy cant get any anywere else so he has to be a scum bag and convence a little girl to crawl in bed with him..... were are the parents!!
memo to parents:
"Get off the crack and do your f*cking job!"  

[Archarion]

my little sis thought she was in love eith this guy.... what a bunch of bull s**t! i mean they were both just 14yrs old for cryin out loud! it was her first boyfriend. he broke up with her a week later on valentines day. i dont remember being so angry.  

[Archarion]

every person has been told this at least once in their life (( it doesnt mean they listen because they dont!)) : sex is no big deal! it can wait. believe me! its not what its cracked up to be. and if you love someone and your young, just remember "love waits." you dont have to rush into sex. it just leads to problems and emotional attachments wheather you love the person or not.  

[Archarion]

i wished i listen. i could have waited, and i really whished i had untill i was married. what do i have to offer the person im REALLY suppose to be with now? and if THAT person isnt a virgian either i know im gonna be thinking who'd they do it with, and are they comparring me to them. and i know theyll be doing the same thing to me. i hate that lost feeling, and i just dont want anyone else to feel the same way.  

[Archarion]

~ wow i guess i had alot to say.. xp  

[Goddess Ace]

Note to Archarion: Instead of posting a bunch of posts, just edit your post to add on.  

[Lily the Pink]

I think it should be after marriage as well.