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 Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 3:52 pm
Recently I had an interesting situation happen on my cousin’s message board. She posted in the General Discussion about skink advice. The topic went horribly wrong and she had many rude replies. I came in and got all of the users but one to understand the full situation and start helping. The one user was a 17-year old Vegan who thought she was better than everyone else because she doesn’t eat or wear animals. Everyone came to the conclusion that this girl was immature, biased, and ignorant. Then it made me wonder…
Alternative Egos on the internet. Why would people really act so cruel in the first place? Or be so annoying? I honestly think because people can hide behind a computer that they can act different and feel superior. People argue over the net because they’re too afraid to do it in real life.
I could be wrong; a lot of people could just be their self… But I see myself saying and doing things that I think I’d be to shy to do in real life.
Eh, okay… maybe I can call this something else but I’m not really sure. This all just came into my head. But yes, I’d like to know what you think.
And before you ask, yes, I do have self esteem problems so that might be for this “alternative ego.”
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Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 12:11 am
I do agree with you. People are often different from their offline selves here on the internet; the reasons are likely as varied as the people behind the screens.
Personality-wise, I'm pretty much the same online or offline, though I can be much less shy online. I'm also able to be more open online just because I can't be hurt as easily. That being said, there are always people that can take what I say, twist it around, and make me feel upset or angry for the rest of the night.
Why are people cruel? Usually because they can be. What's the worst that can happen to them online? They get banned from a guild, or from the site completely, and they create a new name and get right back in. There is very little consequence.
And what about the people that really try to be kind? How often are they ignored, or laughed at because of their 'naievte' or how easily their hearts were stomped? I tell you, sometimes I feel like it's the evil against the good, and in a lot of ways it is.
We just plug along and hope for the best, try to ignore the wicked ones and encourage the others.... heart
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Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 5:08 am
3nodding I always love reading your posts Mara.
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Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 1:51 pm
Goddess Ace 3nodding I always love reading your posts Mara. You're so sweet...thank you...
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 12:38 pm
i actualy agree with this topic because, well, it applyes to me!!
oniline i say things that i wouldn't dare say in real life becuase the people online don't know who i actualy am, or they do, and because i act differently online they don't know it's me. i'm very strait forward online, if something someone does iritates me i explode on them!! but in actuality i'm sitting here thinking.. "why would someone do that?" and i'm not exploding.
i think that the internet brings out peoples alteregos. neutral
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Posted: Tue Jul 04, 2006 9:20 pm
I don't know if there is one person here who could disagree, here. I agree. I know, too, because when I'm online, I'm more outgoing and like making friends more than in real life. In real life, I'm just quiet and unsocial (except around family. I guess I'm just two-faced either way...)
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Posted: Wed Jul 05, 2006 12:27 pm
I don't think I have an alter ego on the net, instead, I can bring out the me on the inside. It's harder for me to talk to people out in the real world because of my Autism, but I'm much clearer when I type out what I want to say.
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Posted: Fri Jul 07, 2006 6:26 pm
i'm always different on every website. on the internet, nobody knows what your really like so you're just so free to be anybody you want. it's awesome. pirate pirate arrggghhh i'm a pirate, or am i? ninja maybe i'm a ninja, or maybe not, but since you don't know me, you can't tell me otherwise. twisted twisted
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 7:40 pm
I'll admit, I used to do exactly what is being discussed here. Me and my best friend (this is YEARS ago) used to go on the Britney Spears chatroom on AOL and just annihilate (sp?) all of the people in there who liked her. There was no reason, and we're not mean like that in person.
I've done many other crazy things too. Luckily, I've now matured and I don't do that anymore. I guess that could be a reason for it. Here we go...
Possible Reasons:
Immaturity
Need for Attention
Being Unsatisfied with Real Life
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Posted: Thu Jul 27, 2006 10:09 pm
I totally agree some peop;e do act way differnt over the internet
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Posted: Thu Jul 27, 2006 10:11 pm
But me I'm well..........me
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 9:52 am
I think that the whole appeal of the Internet is the ability to be and act like who ever you want. In most instances you can get away with a lot more on the internet then you can in real life. I mean think about it, that girl that you mentioned in your first post. All she needs to do after stating her opinion is move on to a different thread. There is nothing keeping her at that page to read other peoples opinions on what she said. Thats the kind of freedom that the internet gives.
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Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2006 8:45 am
Goddess Ace Recently I had an interesting situation happen on my cousin’s message board. She posted in the General Discussion about skink advice. The topic went horribly wrong and she had many rude replies. I came in and got all of the users but one to understand the full situation and start helping. The one user was a 17-year old Vegan who thought she was better than everyone else because she doesn’t eat or wear animals. Everyone came to the conclusion that this girl was immature, biased, and ignorant. Then it made me wonder… Alternative Egos on the internet. Why would people really act so cruel in the first place? Or be so annoying? I honestly think because people can hide behind a computer that they can act different and feel superior. People argue over the net because they’re too afraid to do it in real life. I could be wrong; a lot of people could just be their self… But I see myself saying and doing things that I think I’d be to shy to do in real life. Eh, okay… maybe I can call this something else but I’m not really sure. This all just came into my head. But yes, I’d like to know what you think. And before you ask, yes, I do have self esteem problems so that might be for this “alternative ego.”
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Posted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 8:05 pm
Its really funny when you find out that the really "cool" people online are really fat geeks in real life XD I know im kind of mean but hey I act online like i would in real life im just Me,Myself, and Irene..... WAIT! thats a movie!
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Posted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 3:00 am
Yes, I'm realy shy in real life, but not on the web. I'm not a complete annoying a*****e about it either, though. I don't think I can be and a** hole. And I agrre, all the coolest people on here probably are nerds in real life. I know a few of them. Heck, I'm a nerd too if I think about it. Not a fat one, but still... I don't think it's physically possible for me to get fat.
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