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Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 2:53 pm
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Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 9:51 pm
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Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 6:53 am
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Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 4:39 am
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Posted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 11:48 am
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MSG`d justkidding Okay here's the problem, I have a friend and she has a very troubled life, I mean like her mom has diseases, her dad and brother fight all the time, and stuff like that, well life at school isn't any better, she is made fun of alot and I'm the only person that sticks up for her, and she's constantly fighting with my other friends and they're trying to make me pick a side but I'm not, and she's been trying to cut herself and I told her if she did I'd tell the counciler and she said that I'd better not, but to tell you the truth she needs help! and I don't think I'm the person to help her either what should I do (about the fighting and my friend's hard life?) I think that you can help her, if you try hard enough. Don't stop talking too her. if you're friends are trying to make you choose sides, they aren't good friends anyways.
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Posted: Wed Nov 22, 2006 7:15 am
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i'm not one that likes counceling, specially from "school". in these type of cases, the best u can do is help her. if she's ur friend, u r the one to help her right now, in her moment of need. 2nd, if this doesn't work, then maybe u should head to the councelor, but keep in mind she won't like that. 3rd, maybe u shouldn't have "threatened" her with telling the councelor, just stick to telling her it's plain wrong, and it gets u nowhere. i used to cut, now i don't do it anymore. i realized it was pointless, stupid, and got me nowhere but slight pain relief for a bit. but then it came back. problems CAN NOT b solved by hurting urself. in any case, it makes them worse. it's something else to make u feel bad about. there are plenty other ways to cope with such things. everybody has problems, it's a common thing. sure, there are better and there are worse, but EVERYONE has them. talking about it helps. otherwise, relaxation exercises do, too. if nt breathing, there's my fav one: tire urself. how? well, u can exercise, runn, jump, punch a pillow [of punching bag...i know soft pillows are not inviting in the release of stress], and stuff like that. it helps me, and trust me, i have no easy life. lile everyone else, i got problems of my own [example: father witt unknown mental illness, brother cancer patient, parents divorcing, another brother in the NAVY, cousin in IRAK [he's a marine], and financial issues, amongst other problems. so u see, everyone has them. we just have learn to cope with them.
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Posted: Sat Nov 25, 2006 9:04 am
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Posted: Wed Dec 06, 2006 5:05 pm
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