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Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2006 8:03 am
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yep, me again. this is related to my previous post, though. here's the deal, i'll make it simple: sometimes i get mad at him for something he says or does, then he gets mad because i'm mad [call it "anger bcs i don't understand why u r angry" situation]. and so, we ramble on, both of us pissed and neither stepping down...it's not good. i really dislike it when things get like this. we hang up on bad terms and i have to sleep over it [problem is, like that, i don't rest much. so really it's as if i didn't sleep]. i used to hide my anger precisely because of this, and now i show it sometimes. outcomes point to "should have stayed hiding it". but i don't wanna. i get tired of hiding things. it pisses me off how i have to swallow my anger and yet when he gets angry [note, outside me gettiing mad] i have to swallow that too! scream it's not fair! but if i confront him when i'm angry, then he gets angry because of it. usually this happens during the week, and on the weekend [when i get to see him ::no, i don't get to see him all week::] then i'm all happy and all bcs i'm with him. then he goes and says: "why do u get bitchy during the week, but when u r with me on the weekend it's all peaches and cream as if nothing had happened?" it kinda bothers me that he says that. usually he doesn't apologize when i get angry, mostly bcs he thinks he didn't do anything wrong. but thenif he hadn't, why would i be angry? so, yeah, short story here: i get angry=he gets angry. i hide my emotions, i still have to cope with his being mad sometimes. i wanna let it out, but that = i get mad and so does he. so....what do i do?
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Posted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 7:01 am
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Posted: Mon Nov 20, 2006 10:32 am
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Posted: Mon Nov 20, 2006 11:17 am
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Posted: Sat Nov 25, 2006 2:26 pm
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